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What’s Your Purpose by Henry Ukazu
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7 years agoon
By
Eric
Greetings my good friends!
We are in the last week of January. I believe it’s high time you started taking inventory of what your life has been in the past three weeks. But before you do that, I want to ask you a question. What is your purpose on earth? What is the reason behind everything you are doing?
As you all know, there’s no smoke without fire. As I promised in my first article this year, I will dedicate the month of January to planning for a successful year, and today’s article will wrap it up.
Finding one’s purpose in life is truly the most difficult in life. During this course of this article I did a random research asking people what is their purpose, some answered and some couldn’t. I went further in asking them what they truly want to do be in life, some were able to answer while some said they are still figuring it out. In all, I figured purpose means different things to different people. This article helps to give an insight on how we can find our purpose. In my first book, “Design Your Destiny- Actualizing Your Birthright To Success”, I wrote how we can find our purpose in life and of interest specific interest is my chapter one” titled “You Were Created For A Unique Purpose” gave a very detailed insight on finding your purpose. We shall revisit that topic for a later day.
What truly is purpose? If some one should ask you, what is your purpose, what will be your response? Why do you do what you do everyday? Maybe you get up simply because the alarm clock is going off! Maybe you are passionate about a cause. Above all, your purpose should be your passion.
Purpose is where we find meaning—what we want to do and contribute. Purpose certainly can be linked to your job or career, but many people don’t find their purpose in their work. And even if it is linked, purpose is broader than just a job. For those who have a sense of spirituality in their life, purpose is generally interwoven, often around a sense of meaning and connection. But purpose is also broader than spiritual health—it goes to the heart of what we value and who we are.
Why is having a sense of purpose important? It give you focus and clarity of mind of what you truly plan to be in life. It also helps you to plan better.
It elongates your life. Having a sense of what you want helps you in reducing stress in addition to prolonging your life due to the fulfillment and joy you will get in the “cause”.
You’ve probably heard stories about people in seemingly good health who die shortly after retirement. Researchers believe that a strong sense of purpose is connected to ageing, and those with a stronger sense of purpose may live longer.
Make you happier
According to Barbara Fredrickson, a leading expert on positive psychology, he said “people who flourish as “highly engaged with their families, work and communities. They’re driven by a sense of purpose: they know why they get up in the morning.” Having a sense of where you’re going in life and what you’re living for can relieve a lot of the stress and anxiety that comes from being directionless. When you’re living your life purpose, you’ll feel energetic, focused, and satisfied.
The big question now is, how can I find m purpose?
According to Richard Leider, the author of The Power of Purpose, gifts + passion + values = purpose.
Your gifts are not just your skills and talents, but what you love to do. Your passion is something for which you feel a deep curiosity and interest. Your values include your beliefs and what you consider to be most important. When you can identify those three aspects of your identity, you will have a better sense of how you can maximize your sense of purpose in order to improve your health and sense of wellbeing.
One of the ways of finding your purpose is by asking yourself hard questions. Find a time when you can sit down, without distraction, and honestly ask yourself the following questions: Who am I? What do I have to contribute to the world? If I only had one year left, how would I spend it? What are my core beliefs, morals, and principles? What makes me happy and fulfilled? If I have everything in the world, what will I do with my time?
These are some of the questions you can ask yourself to know your purpose. The answers to this questions will help you discover your gifts, passion, values and your calling.
And remember—there’s no right or wrong answer, and your purpose can change throughout your life! You may need to take some time and re-assess your responses to these questions a few times over a period of weeks to come to an understanding of your own personal purpose in life. Stay mindful of your attitudes and feelings during the day, and reflect upon the times when you feel that you feel fully alive. This process of self-discovery will help you move closer to your own reason for being, which can have powerful effects on your health and wellbeing.
In discovering your purpose, I have a little puzzle for you? Do you wake up each morning with the knowledge that you are about to use the day to do something you love? In the evening, do you go to bed feeling fulfilled and satisfied that you spent the day doing work that was meaningful to you and utilized your own gifts and passions?
What are your passions?
Your calling will engage both your mind and your heart—your natural gifts and the issues you care about most. Your passions will reveal where you want to direct your energy and guide your goals.
Ask yourself: What do I care about most in the world? Whom do I want to help the most? When do I feel most engaged with what I am doing? How would I use a gift of a million dollars if it had to be given away? When your life and work decisions are based on your gifts and passions, the power of purpose emerges, bringing alignment and flow of energy and aliveness.
Another way of knowing your purpose is by Utilizing your natural gifts. We each possess hundreds of skills and natural gifts, which often emerge early in our lives. Gifts are more than just talents; they are what make you feel fulfilled and happy. Having a sense of humor or an ability to bring joy to others, an ability to quickly compute numbers, or an aptitude for leading others are examples of natural gifts that can express your purpose. In summary, ask yourself these two questions: What am I good at? What do I love to do?
Your gifts will arise in the responses that answer both questions—after all, you probably have a long list of things you’re good at, but don’t enjoy doing. A true gift is something you can give back to the world with ease and pleasure.
Serves others. Your calling can be thought of as the urge to share your gifts with the world. When you express your gifts for the sake of others, you often experience the joy of being fully alive.
Creates a feeling of fulfilment and joy: Can you really remember what were you doing the last time you experienced such absorption that you lost all sense of time? If yes, you were probably doing something that relates to your calling.
Calling and career
For some people, work is simply a job, a source of income, perhaps even a source of stimulation and reward, but unrelated to their broader purpose. For other people, their job or career is closely interwoven with their life purpose—it is a vocation, perhaps rooted in the notion of service. Your calling may not necessarily be your job—it may be a hobby, raising a family, charity work, or a way of relating to and helping others—but as purpose often extends broadly into all aspects of life, it will likely engage with your work as well.
For those who want to integrate career with life purpose, it is not enough to simply long for more meaningful work, you need to clearly define what you are looking for and then persistently seek it. This doesn’t mean you need to run out and switch careers. Pursuing meaningful work may simply mean integrating your gifts and passions into the job you do have—for example, volunteering to organize an office recycling program or charity drive.
In Summary, according to Dr. Jones Salk, “To become devoted to a calling, to have a sense of responsibility and to have hopes and aspirations are all part of human. To have no calling, no sense of responsibility, no hopes or aspirations, is to be outside of life”.
Again, I ask you, what is your purpose?
Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny – Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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The Hand of God: I Pause to Say Thank You!
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11 hours agoon
December 27, 2025By
Eric
By Tolulope A. Adegoke PhD
“In an age of ceaseless disruption, the wisest pause is to acknowledge the Unchanging Hand—the divine grace that guides our progress, steadies our systems, and writes our story of possibilities with a wisdom no trend can outpace.” – Tolulope A. Adegoke, PhD
We are living through an age of acceleration. Technological advancements, from generative artificial intelligence to biotechnology, are not just evolving; they are fundamentally rewriting the rules of human enterprise on a near-daily basis. Concurrently, the global community faces layered, systemic challenges—climate volatility, geopolitical fragmentation, economic precarity, and a pervasive sense of institutional distrust. This relentless churn of innovation and crisis can foster a worldview dominated by pure mechanistic cause and effect, where outcomes are seen solely as the result of data-driven strategy, relentless hustle, or fortunate access to capital.
Yet, within the complex tapestry of human progress—across personal biographies, corporate histories, and the annals of nations—there persists a recurring, almost whispered, narrative. It speaks of moments that defy straightforward analysis: the serendipitous encounter that alters a career trajectory, the breakthrough insight that arrives after all logical solutions are exhausted, the organizational resilience that emerges from a crisis in ways no risk-management model predicted, or the diplomatic breakthrough that occurs against all odds when conflict seemed inevitable. For millennia, across diverse faiths and philosophies, this dimension of experience has been attributed to a higher guiding force—often termed the Hand of God. It represents the divine interaction where diligent human effort intersects with transcendent grace, producing outcomes that feel orchestrated, purposeful, and imbued with a meaning beyond mere happenstance.
In our contemporary context, recognizing this force is not an act of intellectual retreat. On the contrary, it is an exercise in profound clarity and emotional intelligence. It provides the essential counterbalance to the hubris of absolute human control and the anxiety bred by uncertainty. It compels us to a vital, transformative pause—a sacred interval for introspection on our core values, retrospection on the journey thus far, and a heartfelt posture of gratitude for the grace that navigates our collective voyage through these uncharted waters. This pause is not an empty space; it is the fertile ground from which wiser action, more sustainable leadership, and deeper hope can grow.
For the Individual: Cultivating Purpose in an Age of Digital Determinism
The modern professional landscape is increasingly mediated by algorithms that curate opportunities, assess productivity, and even suggest career paths. Personal worth is often unconsciously tied to metrics of digital engagement and visible output, leading to a quiet epidemic of burnout and existential doubt. In this environment, the most meaningful developments frequently occur outside these digital parameters.
Consider the pattern: a sudden redundancy, initially a devastating blow, becomes the forced catalyst for launching a purpose-driven venture that aligns with a long-held passion. A chance conversation during a delayed flight leads to a mentorship that shapes a leader’s ethical compass for decades. A period of enforced stillness, perhaps due to illness or family need, creates the mental space for a creative or spiritual insight that reorganizes one’s entire life priorities. These are not merely random events; to the perceptive heart, they bear the hallmark of intentional guidance.
The ancient wisdom of Proverbs 19:21 observes, “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” This is not a dismissal of ambition or strategic planning. Rather, it is an invitation to hold our plans with open hands. It suggests that our detailed life maps are subject to benevolent divine cartography that can see beyond our immediate horizon. The practice of pausing to acknowledge this reality does several things: it replaces anxiety with a sense of guided adventure, it converts envy of others’ paths into contentment with one’s own unique journey, and it fosters a humility that makes us lifelong learners. Gratitude, in this personal realm, is the conscious acknowledgment that our skills, opportunities, and even our recoveries from failure are gifts to be stewarded, not just assets we have self-manufactured.
For the Organization: Building Legacy in an Era of Stakeholder Capitalism
The 21st-century corporation operates under a blinding spotlight. Stakeholders—including employees, customers, investors, and communities—now demand authentic purpose, ethical transparency, and demonstrable social and environmental stewardship alongside financial performance. This shift from shareholder primacy to stakeholder capitalism represents a profound change in the rules of engagement.
In this new paradigm, principles often relegated to “corporate social responsibility” documents are now central to long-term viability. Organizations that operate with integrity—prioritizing fair wages, sustainable sourcing, and genuine community partnership—often experience a form of capital that cannot be listed on a balance sheet: the capital of trust. This trust manifests as customer loyalty during a misstep, employee advocacy in competitive talent markets, and investor patience during necessary transitions. While these outcomes can be analyzed through the lens of sociology or economics, many faith-informed leaders perceive the outworking of a timeless principle.
The Psalmist notes, “The Lord’s blessing brings wealth, without painful toil for it” (Proverbs 10:22). This is not a promise of effortless profit, but a profound observation that sustainable abundance is often tied to alignment with divine principles of justice, honesty, and generosity. When a company avoids a lucrative but unethical deal, it may be protected from future scandal. When it invests in employee well-being, it cultivates innovation and dedication that drives organic growth. The guiding hand here is seen in the provision of wisdom for complex decisions, the fostering of a cohesive culture amid diversity, and the unexpected market opportunities that align with a company’s core values. The necessary corporate pause involves leadership teams reflecting not only on key performance indicators but on their foundational ethos. Gratitude is expressed by acknowledging that success is a collaborative endeavor with a moral dimension and by reinvesting prosperity into the common good.
For the Nation and the Global Community: Steering the Ship of State with Moral Navigation
The arena of geopolitics and national governance is perhaps where the illusion of pure human control is most dangerous and most easily dispelled. Leaders wield immense power, yet they are constantly confronted by the limits of that power—facing natural disasters, global economic tides, and the unpredictable currents of human history. The rise and fall of empires, the sudden emergence of peace movements, and the avoidance of global catastrophes often contain elements that baffle historians and political scientists.
Instances where conflict is de-escalated through a last-minute change of heart, where scientific collaboration across rival nations yields a solution to a shared threat like a pandemic, or where a society makes a collective turn toward justice and reconciliation after generations of oppression—these moments carry a weight of significance that suggests more than shrewd political calculus. They hint at a moral fabric to history itself.
The prophet Jeremiah, addressing a nation in turmoil, conveyed this divine perspective: “For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11). This promise, made in a context of exile and despair, underscores a foundational belief: that the ultimate trajectory of a people is held within a providential narrative of hope and redemption. National pauses for thanksgiving, days of reflection, or calls for collective prayer are not merely ceremonial. They are acts of humility that can reorient a society’s focus from fear and division to shared destiny and mutual responsibility. Gratitude on this scale is a powerful antidote to nationalistic arrogance. It reminds a citizenry of its blessings, fosters a spirit of stewardship over its resources, and cultivates a posture of compassion toward other nations and future generations.
Synthesis: Gratitude as the Foundational Posture for a Future of Meaning
Ultimately, to perceive and acknowledge the guiding hand of God is to choose a narrative of profound hope and partnership. It liberates us from the exhausting burden of believing we are the sole authors of our fate. It protects our souls from the corrosive effects of pride in success and despair in failure. This awareness transforms gratitude from a fleeting emotion into a disciplined posture—a foundational lens through which we view our past, engage our present, and anticipate our future.
This posture of gratitude is eminently practical. It makes individuals more resilient and adaptable leaders. It fosters corporate cultures of ethical innovation and long-term thinking. It encourages nations to pursue policies of justice, peace, and environmental care. In a world intoxicated by speed and disruption, the deliberate, heartfelt pause to say “thank you” may be the most strategic and humanizing act available to us. It grounds our frenetic activity in meaning, connects our personal struggles to a larger story of grace, and equips us to build a future that is not only smarter or richer, but wiser and more deeply human. We pause, we recognize, we give thanks—and from that place of humble acknowledgment, we find the clarity and courage to move forward.
When the world moves faster than our understanding, true wisdom is found in the sacred pause: to recognize the Guiding Hand that has written our story of progress, to give thanks for the grace in our journey, and to find courage for the path ahead.
Dr. Tolulope Adeseye Adegoke is by God’s grace a distinguished scholar-practitioner specializing in the intersection of African security, governance, strategic leadership and effective management. His expertise is built on a robust academic foundation—with a PhD, MA, and BA in History and International Studies focused on West African conflicts, terrorism, and regional diplomacy—complemented by high-level professional credentials as a Distinguished Fellow Certified Management Consultant and a Fellow Certified Human Resource Management Professional. He can be reached via: tolulopeadegoke01@gmail.com
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The Synergy Imperative: Integrating Transformative Leadership and Strategic Management for Africa’s Ascent
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1 week agoon
December 20, 2025By
Eric
By Tolulope A. Adegoke, PhD
“The bridge from Africa’s potential to its preeminence is built with the twin pillars of visionary leadership, which dares to imagine the impossible, and disciplined management, which masters the possible” – Tolulope A. Adegoke, PhD
Africa’s journey from a continent brimming with untapped potential to a unified global powerhouse is arguably the defining narrative of our century. This transformation, however, hinges on a critical catalyst: a new paradigm of leadership. To dismantle the persistent architecture of poverty and transcend the historical cycle of mediocrity, African nations require more than administrators; they need visionary architects and master builders. This necessitates a powerful fusion of transformative leadership—which sets the daring direction—and strategic, execution-focused management—which paves the road to get there. The synergy between these two forces is non-negotiable for unlocking the innovative capacity needed to deliver tangible possibilities for Africa’s people, its dynamic corporations, and its sovereign nations.
I. The Essence of Transformative Leadership: Architecting a New Continental Consciousness
True transformative leadership moves beyond maintaining the status quo. It is an audacious practice of reimagining futures, challenging deeply embedded narratives, and mobilizing collective will toward a shared, audacious horizon.
1. Crafting a Unifying and Aspirational Narrative: The transformative leader’s first task is to be a master storyteller for the future. This involves articulating a vision that moves past diagnoses of poverty to paint a vivid, compelling picture of continental success—a Africa renowned for its innovation, quality, and strategic influence. This narrative must replace a mindset of scarcity with one of boundless opportunity, fostering a new identity where “Made in Africa” signifies excellence, reliability, and cutting-edge solutions. It is about making the idea of a continental giant not a distant dream, but an inevitable destination in the public imagination.
2. Demonstrating Unshakeable Ethical Fortitude: The battle against mediocrity is fundamentally a battle for integrity. Transformative leaders must embody and enforce an ironclad commitment to governance that is transparent, accountable, and institutionally robust. This requires the political courage to depersonalize state institutions, empowering independent judiciary, audit authorities, and anti-corruption commissions not just on paper but in practice. By becoming the chief guardian of institutional integrity, a leader builds the essential currency of trust—without which long-term investment and social cohesion are impossible.
3. Championing Radical Inclusivity: No single entity holds a monopoly on innovative ideas. Transformative leaders actively dismantle top-down governance silos to create participatory ecosystems. They facilitate sustained dialogues that bring together the pragmatic insights of the private sector, the grassroots realities understood by civil society, the foresight of academia, and the voices of marginalized communities. This inclusive approach does more than improve policy; it fosters a profound sense of collective ownership over the continent’s destiny, building a resilient coalition for sustained change.
II. The Discipline of Strategic Management: Building the Engine of Execution
A vision without a rigorous mechanism for implementation remains a mere hallucination. Transformative leadership must be operationalized through management systems characterized by precision, adaptability, and results.
1. Engineering a Performance-Obsessed Public Sector: The public administration must be fundamentally redesigned into a lean, data-driven delivery machine. This demands:
o Integrated Outcome Frameworks: Adopting systems like the Balanced Scorecard to cascade the national vision into clear departmental objectives, measurable Key Performance Indicators (KPIs), and individual accountability metrics for civil servants.
o Evidence-Based Policy Orchestration: Investing in robust data analytics units and real-time monitoring dashboards. Resource allocation and program adjustments must be driven by hard evidence of what works, moving policymaking from political intuition to strategic science.
o Relentless Process Innovation: Launching comprehensive digital governance initiatives to automate and streamline bureaucratic processes—from business licensing to customs clearance. This eliminates friction, reduces opportunities for graft, and dramatically improves the user experience for citizens and investors alike.
2. Cultivating Dynamic Innovation Ecosystems: Management’s role is to create the fertile ground where creativity and enterprise can flourish. This is a deliberate, managerial function:
o Establishing Agile Policy Laboratories: Creating regulatory sandboxes in key sectors like fintech, renewable energy, and logistics allows startups to test breakthrough ideas in a controlled environment with temporary regulatory relief, fostering innovation without compromising systemic stability.
o Orchestrating Strategic Alliances: Building structured platforms for public-private-research collaboration. Government can de-risk pioneering R&D in areas like vaccine manufacturing or artificial intelligence for agriculture, with clear pathways for commercialization led by the private sector and fueled by academic research.
o Safeguarding Intellectual Creation: Modernizing and rigorously enforcing intellectual property regimes managed by efficient, trustworthy institutions. This protects African innovators, attracts R&D investment, and ensures that breakthroughs conceived on the continent yield prosperity for its people.
3. Mastering Capital: Human and Financial:
o Strategic Human Capital Development: Aligning national education and vocational training curricula with the future skills demanded by the continental transformation agenda requires active management through a permanent skills council, ensuring a seamless pipeline of talent for the industries of tomorrow.
o Pioneering Financial Architecture: Beyond domestic revenue mobilization, management excellence is key to structuring and accessing innovative finance. This includes developing bankable project pipelines for green bonds, diaspora investment instruments, and blended finance models to fund the massive infrastructure required for integration, all while maintaining impeccable sovereign debt management.
III. The Tangible Dividend: Delivering Expanded Possibilities for All
The ultimate metric for this leadership-management model is the tangible impact on the ground.
· For Africa’s Citizens: The outcome is expanded human agency and dignity. This manifests as access to meaningful, future-oriented employment; quality, affordable healthcare and education delivered efficiently; and social protections that empower rather than create dependency. Citizens experience a state that is a capable partner in their aspirations.
· For Africa’s Enterprises: The outcome is a predictable, enabling, and competitive operating environment. Corporations and entrepreneurs benefit from reliable infrastructure, seamless administrative processes, access to capital, and a fair, transparent market. This enables them to scale, innovate, and compete confidently on regional and global stages.
· For Africa’s Nations and Continental Body: The outcome is sovereign capability and collective strategic influence. Individually, nations evolve into resilient, adaptive economies. Collectively, a strategically managed and integrated Africa transforms into a formidable negotiating bloc, capable of shaping global rules on trade, climate, and digital governance, and moving from being a subject of global dynamics to a definitive shaper of the world order.
Conclusion: The Imperative of Synergy
The path from poverty to preeminence is paved by the dual forces of transformative leadership and strategic management. Leaders must provide the spark of vision, the moral compass, and the political will to embark on an audacious journey. The management apparatus must provide the meticulous map, the engine, and the metrics to navigate it successfully. When these elements align in harmony—when the architect’s dream is matched by the engineer’s precision—Africa will ignite a self-sustaining cycle of innovation, inclusive growth, and shared prosperity. This is the pathway that turns the latent potential within its people, the ambition of its corporations, and the sovereignty of its nations into a manifested reality. It is how the continent will cease to be perpetually “rising” and will firmly stand, a realized giant, shaping the century ahead.
Dr. Tolulope Adeseye Adegoke is a distinguished scholar-practitioner specializing in the intersection of African security, governance, strategic leadership and effective management. His expertise is built on a robust academic foundation—with a PhD, MA, and BA in History and International Studies focused on West African conflicts, terrorism, and regional diplomacy—complemented by high-level professional credentials as a Distinguished Fellow Certified Management Consultant and a Fellow Certified Human Resource Management Professional.
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A Marriage That Changed History: Celebrating Mobolaji and Dele Momodu at 33
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December 20, 2025By
Eric
By Dr. Sani Sa’idu Baba
Some marriages are sustained by time, a few are tested by trials, but only the rarest are forged by destiny and proven by history. The union of Chief Dele Momodu and Chief Mobolaji Aderamaja Momodu belongs firmly in this extraordinary class, a marriage where love speaks with courage, partnership walks with purpose, and devotion quietly reshapes lives and legacies.
As Chief Dele and his remarkable wife Mobolaji Momodu mark 33 years of marital union, I am compelled to pause, not just to celebrate longevity, but to honour a love story that has survived trials, triumphed over tyranny, and blossomed into a partnership that continues to inspire generations.
I have always known them as love birds. It is almost impossible to engage Chief Dele Momodu in any meaningful conversation without the affectionate and respectful mention of his wife. He speaks of her not as an appendage to his success, but as its backbone, his confidant, his compass, and proudly, his “prayer warrior.” That alone speaks volumes in a world where gratitude within marriage is often whispered, if acknowledged at all.
Chief Mobolaji is kindness personified. Whenever I am privileged to be their guest whether at their warm Ikoyi home in Lagos or at public functions, her concern is constant and sincere. She will not sit comfortably until she is certain that everyone around her, especially her guests, is fine. That gentle strength, that instinctive compassion, defines her essence.
Yet, beyond her kindness lies courage. History will forever remember one defining moment on 25th July 1995 during the dark, oppressive days of General Sani Abacha’s dictatorship, a very heart-touching story. Strange, faceless men had come looking for Dele Momodu at their home. At the time, he was away in Ogun State. Without hesitation, His wife Mobolaji immediately sensed the danger coming when she suspected that those men could have been Abacha’s attack dogs. Highly cerebral young woman she was, she acted smartly by sneaking to trace the road the knew her husband was likely following to come back home. Luckily enough, she stopped him and raised the alarm. That single, decisive action changed the course of history.
Dele Momodu had already tasted detention for his pro-democracy stance where he was detained in Alagbon close. Now, he was being hunted again, this time in connection with the underground Radio Freedom, later renamed Radio Kudirat, in honour of the murdered activist Kudirat Abiola. Acting swiftly on his wife’s intuition and bravery, he disguised himself as a farmer and fled through the Seme border into Cotonou, Benin Republic. That escape marked the beginning of a three years exile in London, but also the preservation of a voice Nigeria could not afford to lose. That moment was not just the act of a wife, it was the intervention of destiny, executed through love.
In making that daring escape, Dele Momodu paid an enormous personal price. He left behind his only child in the care of his devoted wife and also his elderly mother in Ile-Ife, stepping into the uncertainty of exile with nothing but faith, conviction, and hope. That three years journey away from home would later prove transformative, culminating in the birth of Ovation International Magazine in London in April 1996, a global brand that would redefine African storytelling and project Nigerian excellence to the world. How Ovation emanated from Momodu’s rare bravery and risk taking is a another interesting story for another day.
Chief Dele Momodu has often shared that his earliest ambition was simple: to become a teacher, marry a teacher, and live happily thereafter . Fate, however, had grander plans. Their story began during their university days at the University of Ife (now Obafemi Awolowo University), where Dele earned a degree in Yoruba in 1982 and later a Master’s degree in English Literature in 1988. From humble beginnings in Ile-Ife, they embarked on a journey that would take them across mountains and valleys.
On their 30th wedding anniversary, Chief Dele Momodu described his wife as a “combination of brains and beauty”, a woman with whom he has “climbed mountains and descended valleys together.” Few statements capture the depth of partnership more profoundly.
Their marriage in December 1992, graciously bankrolled by the late Chief Moshood Kashimawo Olawale Abiola, Dele Momodu’s adopted father was not merely a union of two souls, but the convergence of purpose, principle, and providence.
After 33 years today, their union stands as a testament to what marriage should be: friendship strengthened by faith, love fortified by sacrifice, and partnership tested, and proven by history.
Beyond the public milestones and historic moments lies a quieter but equally profound achievement, the family they built together. Blessed with four sons whom I refer to as “the Momodu’s 4 effects”, Chief Dele Momodu and Chief Mobolaji Momodu have raised a generation that reflects the values of discipline, faith, and excellence that define their home.
As they celebrate this remarkable milestone, Nigeria celebrates with them. Their story reminds us that behind every courageous man is often a discerning, fearless woman, and behind every lasting marriage is mutual respect, unwavering loyalty, and shared vision.
Happy 33rd Wedding Anniversary to Chief Dele Momodu and Chief Mobolaji Aderamaja Momodu, a couple whose love did not merely survive time, but shaped it.
May the years ahead be gentler, brighter, and filled with the same grace that has defined the journey so far, in good health, wealth, happiness, fulfillment and massive blessings.
Dr Baba writes from Kano, and can be reached via drssbaba@yahoo.com
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