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Remembering Joseph Habineza: Rwanda’s Former Ambassador to Nigeria

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By  Dolapo Aina

The passing on of Rwanda’s former Ambassador to Nigeria and two-time sports and culture Minister of Rwanda, Ambassador Joseph Habineza came as a rude shock to his family members (nuclear and extended), Rwandans, his close friends, the Nigerian community in Rwanda, Nigerians in Nigeria especially his close Nigerian brothers like Mr Ben Murray-Bruce, Mr Tonye Cole, Mr Soni Irabor, Mr Ade Adefeko; just to name a few; who knew him and interacted with him during his time at Nigerian Breweries, during his stint as the Rwandan Ambassador to Nigeria and during his two stints as the sports Minister of Rwanda.

Before, during and after the three-day burial ceremony (Saturday 28th – Monday 30th August 2021) which I attended, the three days brought back several memories of our interactions and discussions from when I first met him in the last quarter of 2013 to my last discussion with him in Kigali on Friday, June 11th 2021 (few days before he flew to Lagos, Nigeria. He was always shuttling Kigali and Nigeria, meeting and merging investors who were interested in investing in Rwanda). Interacting with close family members like his mother (who quipped I should’ve made my tribute a day earlier in French, so she would understand), his brothers-in-law, Mr Robert Bayigamba his best friend (since 1977) who introduced me to Ambassador Joe’s mother and interpreted my words for her and others, it was glaring the nuclear and extended family was a very close-knitted one. And this brought back the old African saying of show me your family, family background, family knowing where you are from and where you are; for they can tell your story.

So many memories (I would share some for the first time for public consumption) I recollect of a listening gentleman who always kept his word. I remember when I had informed the Erelu Kuti IV of Lagos; Erelu Abiola Docemu (a traditional aristocrat and successful and astute businesswoman. Her role serves as the ceremonial queen mother and reigns as regent of Lagos upon the passing on of an incumbent monarch until a substantive successor is chosen by the college of kingmakers) about hospitality opportunities in Rwanda in 2014 and the Lagos Princess was contemplating visiting Rwanda; Ambassador Joe’s schedule was extremely tight that the only way he could reach out was calling because he was heading back to Kigali. He kept his word and placed the call when he arrived in Kigali.

I remember him as someone who had a listening ear, who had a passion for young people, who was a selfless leader who impacted lives; a unique leader who spoke his mind no matter whose ox was gored; a very confident gentleman who did things differently; got results and did not follow the crowd. The list is endless. Many personal stories (I would share a few) and it is safe to state in this piece that Ambassador Habineza was the person (and Ms Josephine Fifi Rurangwa who headed RwandAir in Nigeria back then) who gave me the opportunity to travel outside Nigeria for the first time.
I remember a particular Sunday in 2014 (March 2 to be exact), Ambassador Habineza, Bella Crug (a Rwandan lady and friend who runs an Italian restaurant in Victoria Island, Lagos) and I were heading to Muson Centre for Silverbird’s Man of the year awards. The conversation in the car was in Kinyarwanda and very animated. We arrived at the venue and Bella Crug and I decided to look for somewhere to sit amongst the regular guests but Ambassador Joe told us to follow him since we were his guests. Both young guests of the Ambassador found themselves right in front of the stage (table 7 if my memory of that day is still intact.) Our table had another West African Ambassador (Sierra Leone or so) to Nigeria, Mr Tunde Braithwaite (now late) and the elderly Dutchman, Chief Joop Berkhout (born in Amsterdam in 1930); who is known as the father of publishing in Nigeria and the founding managing director of Evans Brothers Publishing in 1966 and who has lived in Ibadan, Oyo State in Nigeria for fifty-five years.

I remember several conversations at other occasions at Eko Hotel in 2014. I remember how one would text in the morning and Ambassador Joe would reply almost immediately and you wondered if he slept. And his response was usually that he gets up at 5;30 am every day and goes to play lawn tennis (a daily routine which close associates know him for and which I still witnessed in Kigali in 2019). I remember him always saying that he would always pick up calls which aren’t registered or saved on his phones because according to him; “You don’t know if God is calling you to give you one billion.” Apparently, I once heard him say that he used this same technique of unsaved number to call potential job seekers who sent in their applications, those who picked the calls and spoke to the unknown call who happened to be him, went on to the next stage of the interview process.
I remember when he granted interviews to some media houses in 2014 especially on Alibaba’s Seriously (a popular radio show Nigeria Info FM Lagos) and how important information about nation branding was disseminated in a relaxed, jovial format right there in the studio (and the banter amongst Alibaba, his proteges and Ambassador Habineza when commercials were being run during commercial breaks) which got a lot of listeners calling in and the feedback I got from those who listened and knew I was involved.

I remember several early morning breakfasts at one the extremely secluded boutique hotels in the premises of Eko Hotels before he dashed to the airport to catch a flight to Abuja or to Kigali. When I was informed of his demise by Usher Komugisha (a versatile sports journalist who was the person with me when I saw him on June 11th), I remember where I was as it was raining that Friday evening. Coincidentally, during the beginning of that week (August 16-20), I was just getting down to editing the interview I had with Usher Komugisha which was conducted on that Friday (June 11). And as I worked on the interview every day in the wee hours of the morning, I always smiled as I heard Ambassador Habineza’s voice in the background of the audio interview (he and some of his associates were in the same vicinity as Usher and I). When he was about to leave the premises, he came over to where we were seated and said; “Dola; I am going. See you.” Normally, I would have walked him to his car (a routine) but because I was conducting an interview, I could not do so and I could only acknowledge his goodbye with a nod of the head and a hand gesture. Only if one had known with hindsight.

I remember the interviews I conducted with him. After his demise, I did some Youtube search and realised that I had interviewed and recorded him four times in 2014 (thrice in Lagos and once in Kigali). The Kigali interview at Amahoro Stadium was quite interesting. I had walked into the stadium early in the morning since Ambassador Joe was an early riser and the security guard at the first post who could not speak English but only Kinyarwanda, was so confident in her pose and body language (this was not the type of confidence one saw, attached or associated with female security guards in 2014) whilst we tried to understand each other speaking different languages that I had to relate the experience to Ambassador Habineza when I got into his office.

I remember that on my way to my hotel abode after the interview, his personal assistant called me to ask if I wanted to attend a Presidential cocktail for the Rwandan cycling team in the evening at Serena Hotel? My reply was in the affirmative. I remember that even though I had tweeted at the President Paul Kagame some days earlier about an interview with him and the President had responded positively to my tweet, it was Ambassador Habineza who did the introduction at one of the hallways in Serena Hotel after one of the officials in the Presidency then (Sylvia Gasana) had called out to me, gotten my attention and chaperoned me after the event. I remember the brief conversation that ensued between the President, Ambassador Habineza and I. But I cannot reply the witty comments I made to get both men laugh and smile. I remember Ambassador Habineza’s comment to me after he returned from walking the President to his vehicle.

I remember the numerous times our paths would cross at some events in Kigali and a hearty conversation would ensue after we both laugh and say, “you are here”. I remember seeing him at several Nigeria-related events like Nigeria’s Independence Day celebrations on October 1st 2019 and also at Flutterwave’s introduction into Rwanda at Ubumwe Hotel, on Wednesday, 12 February 2020. I remember meeting him at Marriott Kigali in 2019 at an event and Ambassador Habineza was dressed in the full regalia of the people of Bayelsa State in Niger Delta with the spacious cap and walking stick to match. He always represented his Rwandan culture and also love for Nigerian culture. I remember my reaction when I sent him a message about when he was returning to Kigali and he replied; end of September. I remember my final interaction/question to him, when I asked for his two words/two sentences on Nyimirambo (a town in Kigali), he replied but I didn’t get to see or read his response, for he deleted his message.

I remember that on Monday, 23rd of August (few days after the news of his demise), I heard Ambassador Habineza’s voice emanating from a phone and I had to ask the person if that voice was his (Ambassador Joe). Yes, came this acquaintance’s response. And right there in this public space, the individual related his own two to three interactions with the former sports Minister of Rwanda. In a nutshell, Ambassador Habineza promised and delivered on connecting him with some tourism clients who in turn gave this tour operator one of his first major breakthroughs. He further stated that when he met the Ambassador much later on (probably years later), Joe (as he is fondly called) didn’t remember the assistance he made. He made a comment which I could relate with, Ambassador Habineza never expected anything in return. Many of such stories flooded Rwanda’s social media platforms the week the news broke of his passing on in Nairobi, Kenya.

I remember during his farewell dinner in August 2014 which was organised by Nigerians and Rwandans residing in Nigeria; people who had known him since his days at Nigerian Breweries made statements stretching more than a decade old. And it was revealed and a known fact that in the African Diplomatic circle, if Ambassador Habineza was not also present at the African Diplomatic function, you would sense it.

Succinctly put, Ambassador Habineza exemplified a selfless leader with exceptional interpersonal and social skills (a rarity in this part), who put others before himself (I witnessed this several times in Nigeria and also in Rwanda). A lot of the Nigeria-Rwanda socio-economic and cultural ties were initiated or commenced by him.

Seeing Ambassador Joseph Habineza lying in state at his residence and watching online whilst viewing from a far distance at the cemetery in Rusororo (due to covid19 measures in Rwanda, only 30 persons are allowed at the actual resting place.) on Monday, 30th of August 2021; was sobering. His departure sent shockwaves in several circles on the Continent and a lot of those who know him and have known him for decades (most especially family, friends, colleagues etc) would still be trying to process the fact that Ambassador Joseph Habineza is no more but his good works and memories live on.

Like the aforementioned acquaintance suggested, a Joseph Habineza Foundation which would focus on harnessing and bringing forth the talented Rwandan youth in the creative space (a passion of his) would be a welcome initiative to immortalise Ambassador Joseph Habineza’s name.

Dolapo Aina writes from Kigali, Rwanda

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Kwibuka 30: Nigerian Community In Rwanda Visits Kigali Genocide Memorial

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The 30th Commemoration of the 1994 Genocide Against The Tutsi commenced in Rwanda on Sunday, April 7, 2024. The commemoration is called Kwibuka which in Kinyarwanda means “to remember.”
For clarity and context, April 7th 2024 marked the start of Kwibuka 30, the 30th commemoration of the Genocide against the Tutsi, which began on April 7th 1994. As with other commemorations, the Kigali Genocide Memorial was a focal point as the flame of remembrance was lit and global dignitaries placed wreaths at the mass graves. The memorial is normally closed to the public for part of the day on April 7th, with attendance at the lighting of the flame by invitation only.
In and around Kigali during the first week of the commemoration, a plethora of commemorations took place to mark Kwibuka 30 and different events took place during its first week in particular. Bars, clubs and public leisure facilities are usually closed for the week and this was so, this year.
The Nigerian Community in Rwanda marked Kwibuka 30 with a walk to the Kigali Genocide Memorial on Saturday, the 13th of April 2024. The walk had members (old, new and friends) of the Nigerian Community who gathered in the rain and walked to the location of the Kigali Genocide Memorial in Gisozi where the remains of over 250,000 people are interred.
A tour of the memorial complex ensued and the members of the Nigerian community watched a documentary in the viewing room. The documentary featured survivors of the 1994 Genocide Against The Tutsi who usually visit the memorial to pay their silent respect and reflections to loved ones who are buried in the burial grounds of the Genocide Memorial.
Walking through the hallways and rooms, Nigerians read the stories on the hallways and discussed amongst themselves. For some, it was their first time at the memorial, for others, it was the umpteenth visit. For Dolapo Aina, I have been visiting the memorial since April 2014 and for each visit (numbering close to 70 visits), I come out with a newer and clearer understanding. It was a sombre period going through the hallways and rooms as some people could not go through the emotions of going into the children’s room. Wreaths were laid at the grave site section and the members of the Nigerian community proceeded to a serene area of the complex facing the amphitheatre where there was a deep hour conversation with one of the officials of the Kigali Genocide Memorial.
Mr Jean Claude Mugisha (an official of the memorial in Gisozi) practically took the Nigerian community through the genesis of the history of Rwanda and the beginning of pogroms from the 1950s culminating in the 1994 Genocide Against The Tutsi. In Mr Mugabe words; “I have been able to forgive. Also, I am involved in unity and reconciliation activities and learning from the power of forgiveness.” Discussions also centred on justice systems, the role of Gacaca court system, reconciliation and nation building. Members of the Nigerian Community asked questions which were answered. Some of the questions triggered areas of collaboration.
Dolapo Aina got the thoughts of some Nigerians resident in Rwanda and who took part in the walk to the Genocide Memorial. Their responses were based on the following questions. Why did you partake in the walk organised by the Nigerian Community in Rwanda to commemorate Kwibuka 30? What was the experience like? Do describe your thoughts when you visited the Genocide Memorial? What stood out to you from the conversation the Nigerian Community had with officials of the Kigali Genocide Memorial? What lessons did you learn from the visit of the Nigerian Community to the Genocide Memorial?
Mr David Oboh in his words; “I partook in the walk to identify with a nation that experienced one of the worst crimes to humanity but today has become a beacon of hope to African nations that things can actually turn around for the better if you decide to. It was heart-wrenching seeing the bones and pictures of the victims murdered in cold blood by family members, neighbours and long-time friends.” On the third question about what stood out during the conversation, Mr Oboh said; “That a man after 15 years in jail came out and still committed murder because he thought he had killed everyone in a family. His mind had not left the past.” He also stated that; “The memorial is a reminder to all that history not forgotten cannot be repeated.”
In Ms. Mercy Odebode’s words: “It not my first time visiting the memorial but this was a different experience for me because it made me realise why Rwandans tend to certain things and also don’t do certain things. For example, viewing religions especially religious institutions like the church differently from the way Nigerians would view it.” She stated that what stood out for her was: “The peace education stood out for me.” On lessons learnt from the visit by the Nigerian community; “First spread peace and not hate. Secondly, forgiveness is not an obligation, you choose to forgive. However, it is good to educate people about forgiveness, educate to forgive and then you proceed with reconciliation.”
Mr. Ogah Ogbole stated that: “The walk by the Nigerian community is something I would not want to miss anytime. I have the opportunity to do so with my fellow countrymen. My experience visiting the memorial and my thoughts can be summed up as ⁠heartbreaking to see fellow Africans killed in cold blood, by their own brothers. Something must have gone wrong somewhere. What stood out for me during the conversation with the officials of the memorial was that Rwandans understand history; they know how to resolve conflict and they know how to move forward. And I learnt to love my brother and my neighbour. More especially, seeing the Rwandans committed to remain one despite the 1994 Genocide Against the Tutsi blows my mind.”
Another Nigerian, Mr Kelechi Anyanwu stated that: “Partaking in the walk organised by Nigerian Community in Rwanda to commemorate Kwibuka 30 is a civic responsibility which I owe the host country; to stand in solidarity with them at this time of remembrance and in all times. I have visited the genocide memorial site more than 20 times within the short period that I’ve lived here in Rwanda. And every time I visit, I weep. Never will I stop visiting because it offers and brings me close to the reality of sober reflection that one day we shall all be gone and will only be remembered by those we left behind and how we left, will matter. Did we impact their lives positively or negatively? What will you be remembered for?”
On the experience and thoughts about visiting, Mr Anyanwu went thus: “It is also a constant reminder of how desperately wicked people’s hearts can be. With few exceptions. Lions, the king of the jungle don’t kill lions even as animals. Howbeit human beings with 6th sense got to the level of committing such crime against humanity! Therefore, visiting the Genocide memorial site is to provoke the whys and hows and arrive at a conclusion of never again should we condole or tolerate the killing of each other. Let’s love and not hate. The tour and the speech by the officials were quite insightful and significant as it left us with a better understanding of the effects of genocidal damage to humanity. The process of restoration. restitution, rehabilitation and reuniting to rebuild a nation for all; are the testaments of genocide survivors.”

Another Nigerian, Mr Cosmas Anakwue stated; “I took part in the walk to support the Nigerian community and to support Rwanda’s commemoration of Kwibuka 30. My experience at the memorial was good as it was an eye opener; it was informative and educational. What stood out for me was the attention given to the Genocide events and how we can relate it to our history as Nigerians. And one of the lessons I learnt was that we should use our bad history as a building block for our various nations in unity, peace and progress.
According to Kwibuka Rwanda, Kwibuka marks a generational cycle since The Genocide Against The Tutsi was put to an end. And it is a time to reflect on Rwanda’s journey of rebuilding strength, resilience, and unity. It now falls to new generations to sustain and carry forward this progress, adapting to today’s global challenges to achieve Rwanda’s aspirations.
The Nigerian Community in Rwanda commenced commemorating Kwibuka with a walk to the Genocide memorial in 2019.

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Connect Initiative To Celebrate Gov. Umo Eno’s 60th Birthday With Empowerment Programme

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Connect Initiative, a socio-political group of entrepreneurs and professionals is set to commemorate the 60th birthday of Akwa Ibom State Governor, Pastor Umo Eno by empowering 60 vulnerable people from across the 31 Local Government Areas of the state.

The empowerment programme scheduled to hold in Uyo, the State capital on Tuesday, April 23, 2024 would witness the group presenting financial support to the beneficiaries.

According to a statement by the Connect Council“ Knowing full well His Excellency’s modest and humble disposition, we totally agree with his decision not to throw any huge party when many of our people are struggling to meet their basic needs, which has led the state government to establish the Bulk Purchase Agency and introduce a Food Sufficiency Intervention Programme which involves the distribution of free staple foodstuff: rice, beans and garri.

“For us at Connect Initiative, we believe we should support this noble vision of giving a boost to people at the grassroots. We believe that by helping these people develop, the beneficiaries can gain the power to sustain their livelihoods, achieve self-sufficiency and also contribute their quota to the development of our dear state.

The Council further stated “Governor Umo Eno has been in the forefront of efforts engendering business and economic growth with the creation of different initiatives including the establishment of the Ibom Leadership and Entrepreneurial Centre (Ibom-LED) aimed at cutting down poverty figures and providing unique opportunities for youths interested in making a career of their talents, thus his idea of not feeding them fish but teaching them how to fish is commendable.

Connect Initiative which was one of the groups that campaigned vigorously for Governor Umo Eno at the last gubernatorial election noted that in line with its pay-off line “connecting the dots”, it would henceforth be linking government’s programmes to the people at the grassroots with innovative and value-added projects that would have direct impact on the people.

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How Atiku, Others Prevented Implosion of PDP at NEC Meeting – Ex-Rep Dagogo

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A former member of the National Assembly from Rivers State, Dagogo Farah, has said but for the political maturity and sagacity employed by former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, and other leaders, the Peoples Democratic Party would have “‘played into the hands of some individuals, who wanted it to implode to improve their political fortunes at its 98th National Executive Committee, NEC meeting on Thursday.

Dagogo, who described Atiku as the National Leader of the party said this while describing the outcome of the NEC meeting as another demonstration of the resilience of the party to weather any storm that comes its way.

Dagogo who represented the Degema-Bonny federal constituency in the House of Representatives noted that that in the build up to the NEC Meeting, suggestions and permutations had been rife of the likelihood of the PDP running into another round of crises as the party tries to navigate a path for the North Central Zone to produce a substantive National Chairman to complete the truncated tenure of former Chairman, Dr. Iyorchia Ayu.

Dagogo was quoted in press statement issued by his media aide, Ibrahim Lawal, Dagogo as saying this while speaking on the sidelines of the NEC meeting that saw Umar Damagum retaining his position as the Party’s Acting National Chairman until the subsequent NEC meeting scheduled for August.

The former lawmaker pointed out that those who genuinely have the best interests of the PDP at heart made timely sacrifices to keep the party firm and afloat.

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According to him, for the political maturity and sagacity employed by the Party’s National Leader and Former Vice President, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, along other leaders, before and during the NEC Meeting, the party would have “‘played into the hands of some individuals, who wanted the party to implode in order to improve their political fortunes”‘.

He expressed optimism that by the adjourned date of August, Damagum would have seen that “it is in the best interest of the party for him to vacate the position for a more purposeful and result oriented leadership”.

” For me, the outcome of the NEC Meeting was a win-win situation. Against all odds, the party came out unscathed and will continue to wax stronger. Yes, the Acting Chairman retained his position, but it is obvious to him now and others that it would be in the best interest of the party for him to vacate that position for a more purposeful and result oriented leadership by August.

Dagogo further said that “The so called tension generated in the build up of the NEC meeting was actually orchestrated by the inordinate desire of some few individuals who wanted to thwart the sterling call by party faithful for a review of its failing leadership and directionless.

“The Party however did not play into the hands of those individuals, who wanted the party to implode in order to improve their political fortunes, thanks in good measure to the political maturity and sagacity employed by the Party’s National Leader and Former Vice President, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, along other leaders, before and during the NEC Meeting. We are where we now because of their sacrifices and dedication to the party, ” he added.

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