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Rotary, Police Ideals Influenced Me to Help the Man – SP Celestina Kalu

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By Eric Elezuo

She hit national limelight after rescuing an armed robbery victim from imminent death. Not only did she paved his way to adequate medical attention, she also committed her resources to the tune of over a million naira to ensure that the young man was well taken care of. Ever since, Superintendent of Police Celestina Kalu, the Divisional Police Officer, Ogudu Police Station, and member, Rotary Club of Ikoyi, has been receiving accolades from all and sundry for that singular act of humanity. The Anambra State-born police officer told me her story in this brief chat. Excerpt:

I know you are popular and everybody knows you but please for the benefit of hindsight, kindly introduce yourself?

Well, I have a lot of titles. I am SP Celestina Kalu and at the same time I am Rotarian Celestina Kalu.

How does it feel to be the cynosure of all eyes at the moment for what you did for that young man?

I can’t express it in words. I am really overwhelmed, and again I am very surprised. In fact, I feel I am dreaming because since October 1 when the incident went public, I’ve not known rest. People from Nigeria, and indeed all over the world have been in contact with me, some praying for me, some sending me money, others sending messages. In fact, different organisations have been coming to my office to offer me awards. Honestly, I am really humbled and at the same time excited. I never knew doing good can pay this much.

Considering the negative narrative the public has of the Police, what was it that motivated you to attend to that young man?

Passion. I think passion is it; I have passion for human beings, and every human life is important to me. Again,  the ethics of my occupation was a motivation. My main objective as a police officer is to protect life and property, coupled with my Rotary background where selfless services is a watchword. So being a passionate person, police officer and Rotarian all combined to motivate me.

So what message are you sending to the public who mainly think that Police as a profession and individual sometimes have their bad side?

My Message still remains that Police is your friend; you have no other friend than the police. Do you try calling a thug whenever you are in distress? No, it’s the police you will call, and anytime you call the police they will always be there to respond to your needs.

I don’t believe this is the first act of humanity you have done in your profession, can you take us down memory lane maybe to one or two incidents?

Sometimes ago as an upcoming officer, say 12 years ago, then I was attached to the traffic section with the Ebonyi State Command. There was an accident case where I had to take the victim to the hospital, and you know the bureaucracy of the hospital, which involves going to buy card and all the rest. I had to do all these, but two hours after the guy started receiving treatment, he passed on right in my presence. I will never forget that incident. I wept that day. He was a very young man. So, when this very incident happened, I called on God and said ‘God! please, don’t let this happen again. Don’t let all my efforts to be in vain again. I want to tell a story and I thank God He answered my prayers.

Does the two incidents tell any story about our society? About 12 years ago, you took someone to the hospital, he died and no one talked about it, then 12 years after you took another person there, he made it and it went public.

I think back then the social media was not as strong as it is now. The world is a global village now. You can be anywhere and hear about what is happening everywhere; 12 years ago wasn’t like that. I think that was why it wasn’t talked about then. However, people around me know what I am capable of.

So far, many organisations and individuals have been honouring you, what has your immediate constituency, the Police done for you?

Well, we have a group, the Women Right Group that work directly with the Commissioner of Police, and they have come to my office to honour me.

Can you say that belonging to the police and being a Rotarian has a lot to do in fashioning your passionate life?

Very well

SP Celestina Kalu with Rotary club, Ikoyi president, Nkiru Balogun

How?

As a police officer, during my training, we were taught humanitarian services, and we were trained to give first aid by the Red Cross International. We were taught a lot of things during the training, so it is part of my training. I joined Rotary in 2010, and got to know more about humanitarian services. As we all know, Police job is based on selfless and humanitarian service. Despite that, we must carry out our duties.

Kindly trace your growth in the Police force as regards positions and locations till date?

I started my career in Ebonyi State and I have served in different sections there including Traffic, Investigation and Administration. In 2010 when I was posted to Delta State, I was mobilized as a new commander in the  mobile police force. There I commanded a unit of 62 men for three years.

Let’s break it down when you said men, does it have to do with masculine men because you know in the force, and men comprise male and female?

No, it is purely masculine men; they were under my supervision for the years and I never had any issues. Honestly, I had a good time in the mobile police force; it was a good experience. Every police officer should pass through the mobile training in his 35 years with the police. I was trained in Gwoza as well as Ila before I was mobilized into the mobile course for three years. For another three years, I was the spokesperson of the Delta State Police Command, that is the Police Public Relations Officer. In 2016, I got promoted to the rank of Superintendent and became the Asaba Area Crime Officer. I served for three years (2016-2018). In September 2018, I was posted to the Operation Department, of course I liked operation second to public relation. I functioned in that capacity till January 2019 when I was transferred to Lagos.

I didn’t hear you talking about going up North so far, any intention to?

I have not been posted to the north yet but I will definitely go to the north because I was born there, that is my root.

You were born in the North? Apart from being born in the north and being a Nigerian, what is your state of origin?

I am from Anambra State. I was born in Maiduguri, Borno State. I had all my education there – from nursery to university.

Okay, Maiduguri explains your ability to speak more than the Igbo language?

Yes

Can you speak the Igbo Language

Yes I can speak Igbo language.

Question: Which other language do you speak?

I speak a little of Yoruba.

That means you speak Hausa and Igbo at the same time?

That’s right

Was the young man able to speak when you met him in pains? What exactly did he say to you that moved you?

He talk all through till he was wheeled to the theatre by 5am

SP Celestina Kalu with District 9110 Governor, Rtn. Jide Akeredolu

What did he tell you?

I actually did not take him to the hospital: my men did, and I kept in touch. He was first taken to Gbagada General Hospital where he was given first aid, they confessed that they don’t have the capacity to treat him as he would require surgery because he was shot in the stomach. So they referred him to Federal Medical Centre. He was rejected at FMC as management complained of lack of space. The young man was bleeding profusely so I suggested he be moved to the Ikeja General Hospital. Funny enough, we were also told that that there was no space. That was when I said ‘it’s a lie’. I ordered them to wait for me there while I drove all the way to the hospital. The time was past 12 midnight.

To my greatest surprise, the man was still sitting right inside the patrol vehicle, bleeding and hanging on a drip, when I got there. The humanity in me got angry, and I confronted the hospital saying ‘what a hell! What do you people think you are doing here; people say police is not good, now police have done their duty, why can’t you people in the hospital do yours; this young man has been bleeding since God knows when’. We actually picked him up around after 9pm and it was already way past midnight and he was still in my vehicle. I asked them if they want him to die in my vehicle or die in my custody or what.

They again complained about space, but I said it was a lie, and asked my men to bring him inside the hospital because that was where he belongs not the police van or custody. They did. I therefore, approached the doctor on duty and gave him my number and N5000 with an instruction to ensure he gets treatment, no matter what while promising to locate his family by morning.

But as I was about leaving, the young man held me and said ‘Mummy, please I don’t want to die, please don’t leave me, please help me.’ I was transfixed. I just stood there knowing very well I couldn’t leave him alone. He was already turning white from head down. I was scared and had to go back to the doctor and asked him what he wants us to do. I know it was a matter of money so I immediately promised I will pay. That was when he told me that his condition required surgery. I said I was ready, then he started making calls and within 2 hours every doctor, surgeon and the rest were present. They told me what they needed and I started buying everything, to the last item. But getting blood became a problem; he had lost a lot of blood already, and was turning white. When they checked his blood group, it was O positive, but there was no blood in the blood bank when they checked. Incidentally, I was O positive.

You donated your own blood?

I didn’t. I volunteered to but they told me they can’t bleed in the night as there was no staff to do it. At that instant, I remembered I’ve seen in movies where they do direct transfer from a donor to a patient, so I asked them to try the method, but they declined, saying it doesn’t work that way. They said there is a place where blood is sold. I took the number and called, and before I knew it, four to five bags of blood were delivered. In fact, by 5am, they wheeled him to the theatre for the operation.

Can you tell us the total amount you spent there?

I won’t know exactly, but towards the end of everything, I realised I had spent over a million naira, You will be shocked to know how the money came by

Today you are SP, are you expecting any promotion soon?

Definitely, I have to move from this position to a higher position at most in the next four years.

I mean in the shortest distance, based on this singular achievement

If promotion comes I would take it.

So what advice do you have for those who usually abandon sick people or people with bullet wounds on the road. I can see that you made progress because of your status as a ranking police officer 

What happened that day has brought lots of changes, and I’m glad. I was speaking to the CMD at the hospital when I went there to recount my experience, he promised me that he has changed the rule of ‘don’t bleed in the night or no bleeding by weekend’. The rule has been changed. Again, when Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu was honouring me, he told me that I have inspired him to go and check the hospitals at random times, to make sure that certain things are put in place in case of emergencies. The incident has brought those changes, so something good came out of it.

We join all Nigerians to appreciate your effort. Congratulations ma!

Thank you very much. Nigeria is a great country, I never knew that Nigeria could appreciate a public servant this way, honestly I really appreciate. Doing good really pays.

Is it a clarion call for people to do good in order to attract national accolades 

Yes it’s good to be good.

I see you getting a national honour soon. Congratulations once again!

(Laughs) Thanks…looking forward to it.

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Meet Fidelity Bank’s New Board Chair, Amaka Onwughalu

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For her dexterity, hard work, commitment, achievement and integrity, excellent banker and entrepreneur, Mrs Amaka Onwughalu, has the nod of the Fidelity Bank’s family to take up the chairmanship position of its board as Mustafa Chike-Obi completes his tenure.

In a statement announcing her appointment, the Bank posted on its website as follows:

Tier one lender, Fidelity Bank Plc, has announced the completion of the tenure of Mr. Mustafa Chike-Obi as Chairman of its Board of Directors effective December 31, 2025, and the appointment of Mrs. Amaka Onwughalu as the new Chairman of the Board, effective January 1, 2026.

The board transitions are in alignment with the Bank’s policy and have been communicated to the Central Bank of Nigeria, the Nigerian Exchange Group, and other stakeholders.

Under Mr. Chike-Obi’s leadership, Fidelity Bank repaid its Eurobond, completed the first tranche of its public offer and rights issue that were oversubscribed by 237 percent and 137.73 percent respectively, expanded internationally to the United Kingdom, and received improved ratings from various agencies amongst a long list of achievements. His tenure also saw the Bank strengthen its capital position, record steady growth in customer deposits and total assets, deepen its digital banking capabilities, and enhance its corporate and investment banking proposition. The bank equally made notable progress in governance, risk management, and operational efficiency, all of which contributed to strengthened market confidence and the Bank’s sustained upward performance trajectory.

Reflecting on his tenure, Mr. Mustafa Chike-Obi said, “It has been a privilege to serve as Chairman of Fidelity Bank. The dedication of our Board, management, and staff has enabled us to reach significant milestones. I am confident that the Bank will continue to thrive and deliver value to all stakeholders.”

Mrs. Amaka Onwughalu’s appointment marks a new chapter for Fidelity Bank. She joined the Board in December 2020 and has chaired key committees. With over 30 years of banking experience, including executive roles at Mainstreet Bank Limited and Skye Bank Plc. She holds degrees in Economics, Corporate Governance, and Business Administration, and has attended executive programmes at global institutions. Mrs. Onwughalu is a Fellow of several professional bodies and has received awards for accountability and financial management.

“I am honoured to lead the Board of Fidelity Bank at this exciting time. Our recent achievements have set a strong foundation for continued growth. I look forward to working with my colleagues to drive our strategy and deliver sustainable value,” commented Mrs. Onwughalu.

Ranked among the best banks in Nigeria, Fidelity Bank Plc is a full-fledged Commercial Deposit Money Bank serving over 9.1 million customers through digital banking channels, its 255 business offices in Nigeria and United Kingdom subsidiary, FidBank UK Limited.

The Bank is a recipient of multiple local and international Awards, including the 2024 Excellence in Digital Transformation & MSME Banking Award by BusinessDay Banks and Financial Institutions (BAFI) Awards; the 2024 Most Innovative Mobile Banking Application award for its Fidelity Mobile App by Global Business Outlook, and the 2024 Most Innovative Investment Banking Service Provider award by Global Brands Magazine. Additionally, the Bank was recognized as the Best Bank for SMEs in Nigeria by the Euromoney Awards for Excellence and as the Export Financing Bank of the Year by the BusinessDay Banks and Financial Institutions (BAFI) Awards. 

Before landing the chairmanship job at Fidelity Bank Board, Amaka has been the Managing Director of Legal at Mainstreet Bank, and Deputy Managing Director at Skye Bank.

Onwughalu joined Fidelity Bank Plc in 2020, and has served as a Director at of Bank Plc.

The accomplished banker holder of the prestigious of Paul Harris Fellowship of the Rotary Club, and recipient of various prestigious awards including the National Merit Award for Accountability and Transparency, the Award of Excellence and Distinction for Financial Management and the Vocational Service Award from the Rotary Club, Enugu.

Well read, Amaka Onwughalu is a Master Degree holder of Science in Corporate Governance from Leeds Metropolitan University and a Master of Business Administration from University of Port Harcourt, Nigeria.

Onwughalu boasts of a cumulative three decades experience in the banking, and has held very senior and managerial positions before climaxing on the top level of chairmanship of Fidelity Bank.

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Celebrating a Veteran Journalist, Ibrahim Babatunde Jose at 76

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If professionalism were a person, we would call him Ibrahim Babatunde Jose. If humility were a person, we would call him Ibrahim Babatunde Jose. If clarity and eye-to-details were a person, we would call him Ibrahim Babatunde Jose.

Here is a man, who has combined nature, God’s gift and outright hardwork to reproduce another form of humanity rooted in love, kindness and care for fellow man. And on Christmas, this epitome of goodness clocked 76; a landmark age that still permits him to be himself. He is a typical chip of the old block.

Born as the eldest son of late Alhaji Babatunde Jose OFR, famously and synonymously connected to the early days of the prestigious Daily Times Newspaper, on December 25, 1949, Mr Jose is a well read professional, academic and community leader.

Having obtained B.Sc degree in Political Science from the University of Ibadan in 1973, Mr. Jose shortly proceeded to the Graduate School, University of Manchester for a follow up Masters degree in Political Science, earning an M.A. (Econ) in 1974.

With the insatiable thirst to acquire more academic laurels, in the same 1974, Jose left for the Columbia University, New York, United States for a Fellowship for Minority Journalists.

He later enrolled for a PhD programme at the Center for West African Studies, University of Birmingham, and was done by the end of 1975, when he returned to Nigeria, with a solid decision to serve his fatherland beginning with the newly introduced National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) scheme. The scheme was two years at the time. He was posted to Port Harcourt, Rivers State for the compulsory one year service. His period of internship as a corper, working as a staff writer with the Nigerian Tide, existed between January 1976 and 1977.

At the end of the service year, Jose returned to Lagos to pick up his first career employment with the Daily Times as a Staff Writer on Times International.

Following his sweatless delivery of deadline, flawless write up, focus and commitment to team work, Jose was not only promoted to a rank of a Feature Editor, but elevated to the membership of the Editorial Board of the Daily Times.

With consistency and delivery signposting all his assignments, he got more promotions, first to Investigation Editor status, and later as Editor Times International.

In the line of duty, Jose had his hands in other pies, having had a stint as a part time lecturer in Government at the Faculty of Social Science of the University of Lagos, before joining the family printing press, Irede Printers in 1979, becoming a printer and publisher.

Jose held the printing profession close to heart, retiring from the press in 1995, and taking up a publisher’s job with the publication of the now rested Business journal: Lagos Business Review.

Married and blessed with beautiful children, Jose is today fully a retired writer and author of two quasi religious books: Reflections on Juma’at Greetings 1 and 2, and a compendium of weekly Friday Sermons; a dotting grandfather and adoring community leader.

From all of us at The Boss Newspaper, where Jose has been a consistent contributor of the Friday Sermon series for about 10 years, congratulations on your 76th birthday sir, and for being our Boss of the Week!

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Consistent, Focused, Impactful: The Story of Bella Disu

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From whichever angle one views it, Bella, the beloved daughter of billionaire businessman, Dr. Mike Adenuga Jr., is an enigma, a point of reference and research material for acumen, industriousness and resilience. She is the typical of the never-say-never spirit of the Nigerian women. Yes, she has taken hers a niche higher, infact beyond the reach of competitors.

Nigerian women have shown resilience, strength and character in administration, government and entrepreneurship, contributing more than their quota, and giving vent to the growth and development of the nation’s socio-economic sector.  Among them is the impactful Executive Vice Chairman of the A-list communications outfit, the Globacom Group, Mrs. Bella Disu.

A strong purpose-driven professional and boardroom guru, whose administrative skills, intellect, experience and academic trajectory have remained a subject of reference, Bella, as she is fondly called, is a woman, who though has a privileged background, carved a niche for herself, climbing through ladders and cadres to get to where she presently is, and more importantly, can boast of the desired leverage and ability to defend her position.

Born Belinda Ajoke Adenuga, on May 29, 1986 to the duo of Emelia Adefolake Marquis, a Nigerian entrepreneur, and the global phenomenon, Dr. Mike Adenuga Jr., Bella received her early education in Lagos, at the prestigious Corona School in Victoria Island before enrolling at Queen’s College for her secondary education. In 1998, she transferred to Vivian Fowler Memorial College for Girls, where she concluded her secondary education.

She proceeded to the University of Massachusetts, Boston, USA, where she obtained a Bachelor of Arts degree in International Relations, and later, a Master of Science degree in Leadership from the Northeastern University, also in Boston.

In 2004, Disu joined her father’s Globacom, and consistently rose through the ranks to become the Executive Vice Chairman of the company. She is also a non-executive director with the construction giant, Julius Berger Nigeria Plc.
In April 2010, Bella took a break to solemnize her romantic relationship with her heartthrob, Jameel Disu, a venture capitalist, and both formalized their union in a fairytale wedding that is still the talk of the town, almost 15 years after.
As phenomenal and weighty as her family name, Bella dropped, and picked up completely her husband’s name, signifying undying love and loyalty. That’s still  the name she bears till date. Both are blessed with three wonderful children.
In 2019, the French Government awarded Disu the Chevalier dans ‘l’Ordre des Arts et des Lettres in recognition of her efforts in promoting French culture.

In January, 2021, Abumet Nigeria Limited announced her appointment as Chairman of its Board of Directors. Abumet Nigeria Limited maintains worldwide partnerships with reputable manufactures and maintains a state-of-the-art production facility, located in FCT Abuja, fully equipped with cutting-edge machinery and technology.

Abumet is a subsidiary of Julius Berger Nigeria Plc, and a leading solutions provider for the planning, processing and installation of aluminium and glass products, from single standard windows to sophisticated facades and large-scale design masterpieces. She replaced Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, upon his resignation from the board. Bella is a Member of the Chartered Institute of Management of Nigeria (MNIM) and the Institute of Directors of Nigeria (MIOD).

In addition to her French National Honour of Chevalier dans l’ordre des Arts et des Lettres (“CAL”), and currently the Executive Vice- Chairman of Globacom Limited, she is also the Chief Executive Officer of Cobblestone Properties & Estates Limited, and a Director on the Board of Mike Adenuga Centre.

In less than four years of her leadership, Abumet’s profits, according to Billionaire Africa, surged to 307% in 2024, marking a major turnaround from losses in 2021.

The paper reported of her exploits as follows: “As a Non-Executive Director, she helped boost Julius Berger’s revenue to N566.2 billion, pushing it into Nigeria’s top 50 listed firms.

“At Abumet, Disu is driving innovation in façade technology, deploying unitized curtain walls for improved insulation and energy efficiency in Nigeria’s construction sector.

“Nigerian business executive Bella Disu has led Abumet Nigeria Limited, an innovative glass and aluminum manufacturing company, to record-breaking earnings, with profits quadrupling at the end of the 2024 fiscal year. Her leadership has not only steered the company back to profitability but has also reinforced the business acumen that runs deep in the Adenuga family.

“In a LinkedIn post, Disu, who has served as chairman of Abumet since 2021, shared the company’s turnaround: “Abumet is reaching new heights, and I’m excited to share our latest achievements. I am especially proud of the remarkable turnaround we’ve achieved—transforming from a loss in 2021 to delivering a 307 percent increase in profit in 2024.

“At just 38, Disu has earned her place among Africa’s top executives under 40, proving her ability to drive business success while steadily stepping into the legacy of her father, billionaire Mike Adenuga, who ranks among the continent’s wealthiest individuals with a fortune of $6.8 billion. She took over as chairman of Abumet’s Board of Directors in January 2021, succeeding Bamanga Tukur at a time when the company was struggling with steep losses.

“Since then, Disu has orchestrated one of the most impressive corporate recoveries in Nigeria’s manufacturing sector. Under her leadership, Abumet returned to profitability by the end of the 2022 fiscal year, bouncing back from the impact of COVID-19 and the financial challenges of 2021. The company sustained its profit in 2023 before posting a fourfold increase in 2024.

“Reflecting on this achievement, Disu credited the success to strong leadership and teamwork: “This success is the result of strategic leadership at the Board level, the dedication of our management team, and the collective effort of every Abumet employee.”

“Bella Disu expands Abumet’s market reach
As a 90-percent subsidiary of Julius Berger Nigeria Plc, Abumet plays a key role in the construction giant’s success. Bella Disu, who also serves as a Non-Executive Director at Julius Berger, has played a ‘much more’ active role in driving growth in the building solutions sector. By the end of the 2024 fiscal year, Julius Berger’s revenue rose from N446.1 billion ($296.4 million) in 2023 to N566.2 billion ($376.2 million) in 2024.

“Profit after tax also increased from N12.74 billion ($8.5 million) to N14.97 billion ($10 million), boosting the company’s market capitalization on the Nigerian Exchange (NGX) to N202.1 billion ($134.3 million). This has placed Julius Berger among Nigeria’s top 50 publicly listed firms, ranking 35th on the NGX.

“Under Disu’s leadership, Abumet has strengthened its market position by expanding its sales and marketing efforts. The launch of its Lagos sales office has helped grow its market share for made-in-Nigeria window and door solutions, while its EVONIGGLASS insulated glass brand has gained wider recognition. Despite market challenges, the company has posted record-high revenue and profits, exceeding expectations.

Abumet deploys energy-efficient curtain walls

Looking ahead, Disu is focused on pushing innovation in advanced façade solutions, leading Abumet’s efforts in glass and aluminum manufacturing.

“Abumet is deploying unitized curtain walls that will completely envelop the façade, ensuring not just aesthetic excellence but also enhanced energy efficiency through modern insulation technologies,” she said.

With a strong record of turning businesses around and driving growth, Disu is cementing her leadership in Nigeria’s business world. Her influence now extends beyond construction, telecommunications, and real estate into the country’s broader manufacturing sector, where she continues to make a lasting impact.”

Bella’s trajectory in the world of enterprise is a clear case of the demystification of the proverbial a tree cannot make a forest’, as she has conscientiously turned tables around wherever she found herself, bring in new ideas, new innovations and structural discipline that completely overhauls a system for all the positive outcomes.

Hers, is a case of continuous rise in the business world, and the home front. She is a better definition of a virtuous woman, and at less than 40 in age, the sky holds no barrier to how much more Belinda Ajoke Olubunmi Disu nee Adenuga could achieve in the coming months.

In November 2025, at a Techx Ikoyi event, Bella made a strong case for positivism, using herself as a veritable content and well researched material. Her speech titled, Say Yes Now! Why Readiness is a Myth, is still much talked about as presented in full below:

I was 38 when I finally met my whole self. Bella Disu — the change maker, the creative, the lifelong learner, the woman unafraid to keep evolving.

It’s interesting though, I didn’t meet her in a moment of perfect readiness. I met her after I got tired of constantly walking within the same walls. Today, I’d like to share the story of how I stopped waiting, what it taught me about why we hesitate, and what happens when we finally say yes. 

A while ago, I decided to try something new. Not in business, but in my years-long fitness journey. At one point, I weighed 110 kilos. At another, 64. By my mid-30s, I had found a rhythm: 160 grams of protein a day, strength training four times a week, 10,000 steps daily. Slight work, right? I had three walking pads — one in my bedroom, one in my study, one in the office. Don’t ask. I’ve never been one for small measures.

But it worked. Of course it did. Until one day, I realized this is my life — walking in place and staring at the same walls. So, I thought maybe it’s time to move differently. Maybe I should learn tennis.

Yet, as soon as the thought came into my mind, I hesitated. I asked myself, “Should I do it? Should I wait? Wasn’t it too technical, too hard, too late?” After all, who starts tennis at 38?

Despite not feeling quite ready, I found a coach, showed up on the court, and soon I was playing tennis three, sometimes four times a week. And then, to my horror, I discovered that tennis doesn’t even give you that many steps. All those side-to-side moves don’t count. But by then, it wasn’t about steps anymore. I was hooked. And now I am often amazed at the physical and mental growth that has since happened all because of one small decision. I’d asked myself, “Should I do it? Should I wait?” And something in me answered, “Say yes now.”
But I’ve thought about why I hesitated in the first place. And it’s that for years I thought I had to wait for the right moment, for more qualifications, for a different version of myself. Psychologists call it destination addiction — the belief that happiness lives at the next milestone. So, a certain weight, title, or degree.

And I know I’m not alone. How many of you have asked yourselves: “Should I do it? Should I wait? What if I fail?” We all know that familiar voice that whispers, “Not yet.” So, if the antidote is that simple — say yes now — why don’t we all do it?

We don’t because hesitation is a conundrum. It wears the mask of readiness. And I used to mistake readiness for a finish line. Then in 2014, I met a coach I had invited to facilitate an HR session. And after the session, he said, “So tell me about Bella.”

I froze. I really did. I could talk about my work, my father’s mentorship, even my wedding — which is probably my biggest claim to fame at the time. But about me, I… I really didn’t have much to say. So, I was thankful when he offered me a complimentary session and said, “Let’s talk to Bella from 10 years ago. What would you tell her? And 10 years ahead — who is she?”

 

To be honest, that future Bella was hazy. But his questions drew out interests and passions I once buried. So he then said, “What’s stopping you from going after them? You can be many things at once.”

So I said a mental yes to his words — and it opened doors to pursuing diverse interests: a first master’s, later an MBA, writing and publishing my first children’s book, impacting lives through the Bella Disu Foundation, and gaining the courage to walk into rooms that once intimidated me.
You see, each step reinforced something critical: readiness is not a destination — it’s a posture. And we become ready by doing.

Today, I’m no longer a woman hesitating in life or business. And that transformation has seeped into organizations I lead. I’ve led through discomfort many times. I’ve restructured a board and redesigned corporate strategies. And I’ve dealt with the late nights, the doubts, and that familiar restlessness that keeps leaders awake thinking, “We have to make this change.”
Yet conviction, grounded in facts, gives me a sense of urgency. And that to me is leadership — seeing what could be and moving towards it. Viewing urgency as a journey toward clarity and not chaos.

And this is particularly important because organizations wrestle with hesitation just like individuals do. Some companies choose to wait for perfect timing — and lose their moment. Others say yes now — and change industries.

I’m sure you all are familiar with these three companies that sat at the same intersection in the 1990s. Remember Kodak?
Kodak saw digital images coming and froze. Blockbuster saw Netflix and laughed. Why? Organizational loss aversion. The fear of letting go of a successful past to pursue an uncertain future.

In contrast, Apple saw the same digital future and accelerated it. The difference? Two companies chose to protect their past and failed. One chose to create its future and thrived.

And that story isn’t foreign. It’s happened right here at home, too. Just think of how we went from seeing the glory days of a popular quick-service restaurant that defined our childhoods to the success and triumph of newer ones like Chicken Republic and Kilimanjaro.

We’ve also seen the rise and agility of fintechs pushing banks to challenge their long-held ways of doing business — and in doing so, unlocking entirely new markets and customer segments.

The companies that say yes now prove that courage and speed matter more than size and comfort. Therefore, the companies that thrive, the leaders who excel, the people who grow — they all share one thing: they’ve come to recognize the mask of hesitation and take it off.

When hesitation says “not yet,” they know that doing creates readiness. And when comfort offers its gentle cage, they choose the discomfort that leads to growth.

Indeed, when I look back at every important shift in my life, it began with a small yes — often inconvenient, sometimes uncomfortable, occasionally irrational.

Saying yes to tennis at 38. Saying yes to learning again. Saying yes to growth when it would have been easier to just stay still.
But here’s what I didn’t expect: saying yes never ends with you. My teams learn to challenge comfort because I did. The women I mentor raise their hands because they saw me raise mine. And my daughter Paris picked up a racket because I picked up courage.

Every yes we give ourselves becomes a light that tells someone else it is safe to begin.

So, right now in this room, someone is sitting on an idea — starting a new business, changing roles, writing that first page, booking that class. Maybe you’re waiting for perfect timing, asking yourself, “Should I do it? Should I wait?”

You already have your answer. The traffic light — it’s already green. So move. Say yes. But most of all… say yes now.

Thank you.

Bella is sure a force to reckon with; in all ramifications!

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