By Ruth Akpan
In an atmosphere thick with emotion yet illuminated by grace, family, friends, and dignitaries gathered at the serene Stella Hall of the Daystar Christian Centre, Oregun, Lagos, to bid a solemn and deeply moving farewell to Mrs. Oluwakemi Oyeteju James – a woman whose presence, though now stilled, continues to echo in the hearts of all who knew her.
She was the beloved wife of Mr. Michael Effiong James, former Editor at Ovation International and presently the Senior Special Assistant to the Governor of Akwa Ibom State (Lagos Liaison).


Kemi, as she is fondly called, stood as a beacon of love, a nurturing matriarch, and a woman whose kindness left indelible imprints on countless lives. Her passing marked not just the end of a life, but the transition of a soul whose presence had become a comforting constant to many.
The Service of Songs, meticulously coordinated by the Thriving Business Women Fellowship—a group she served with uncommon zeal and devotion—unfolded with an air of reverent elegance. It was an evening steeped in faith, reflection, and heartfelt gratitude for a life that had given so much.
Pastor Mercy Adeyemo opened the service with a deeply touching prayer, her voice resonating with compassion as she committed the gathering into God’s hands and sought divine comfort for the bereaved family. The congregation soon lifted their voices in the timeless hymn “In Christ Alone,” a powerful declaration of faith that seemed to echo Mrs. James’ unwavering spiritual foundation.
The scripture readings that followed were delivered with heartfelt emotion. Her daughter, Kufre Oluwatoni James, opened with the first Bible reading, her voice steady yet laced with emotion. Anietienteabasi Oluwatobi James, her son, delivered the second reading, while Miss Oluwatosin Oyediran completed the trio with a reflective third passage. Each reading served as a gentle reminder of the eternal promises of God and the hope of life beyond.
The Victory Choir, with their soul-stirring melodies and harmonious renditions, elevated the atmosphere into a sanctuary of worship, their voices resonating with both sorrow and celebration – a fitting tribute to a life well lived.
One of the most poignant highlights of the evening was the screening of a carefully curated video documentary, a visual chronicle that captured the many seasons of Mrs. James’ life. From her radiant smile to her quiet acts of kindness, from cherished family moments to her unwavering commitment to service, the montage painted a portrait of a woman whose life was richly woven with love, purpose, and grace.
Delivering a deeply reflective exhortation titled “A Treasure in Your Life,” Pastor Ituah Ighodalo offered words that resonated profoundly with the gathering. Drawing from 1 Peter 5:8–9, he reminded everyone of the importance of valuing the people God places in their lives, urging them to live with gratitude and to remain steadfast in the face of life’s unpredictability. His message, both sobering and uplifting, underscored the reality that while life is filled with challenges, it is ultimately designed by God for a greater good.
Then came the tributes—each one a heartfelt outpouring of love, admiration, and deep personal connection.
Her children, Kufre Oluwatoni James and Anietienteabasi Oluwatobi James, delivered touching tributes that reflected the profound bond they shared with their mother. Their words painted the portrait of a woman who was not only a parent but a guide, a confidante, and an ever-present source of strength and encouragement.
Mr. Adeola Owolabi, speaking with visible emotion, described her as a dear daughter and cousin who was intentional in her relationships—ever present, ever willing, and ever ready to give. He emphasized her role as a unifying force, a bridge that connected family members and nurtured lasting bonds.
Representing the Ojikutu family, Alhaji Abdul Smith recalled her unwavering support in family matters, noting how she consistently took the lead in organizing and anchoring family celebrations. Her absence, he remarked, would be deeply felt.
For the Macaulay family, Mr. Ayo Ogunlana delivered a stirring tribute that captured both the pain of loss and the beauty of cherished memories. He spoke of her as more than a niece—she was a confidante, a guiding light, and a source of unwavering support. He fondly remembered her honesty, her infectious laughter, and her courageous fight for life until her passing on March 12, describing her as a beacon of kindness whose legacy would endure.
Mr. Asuquo James, on behalf of the James family, described her as a virtuous woman and a powerful unifier whose presence commanded love and admiration. Like a colossus, he said, she drew people to herself, leaving a lasting imprint on everyone she encountered.
In a deeply affectionate tribute, Mrs. Gbemisola Aluko spoke of a woman whose kindness knew no limits—empathetic, generous, and deeply intentional. She recalled how Mrs. James expressed her love through acts of service, often ensuring that no one around her lacked care or comfort.
From the Thriving Business Women Fellowship, Pastor Funmilola Ifebodun paid tribute to a devoted member fondly known as the “Able Leader” within the welfare unit. She highlighted Mrs. James’ unwavering commitment, her zeal for service, and her unmistakable kindness. In a note of spiritual reassurance, she reminded the gathering that this was not a final goodbye, but a transition into eternal glory.
Several other tributes followed from colleagues, friends, and associates, including representatives from the Nigerian Institute of Journalism, the welfare unit, and various social circles. Each tribute reinforced a singular truth—that Mrs. Oluwakemi Oyeteju James was a rare gem whose life was defined by love, generosity, and purpose.
Pastor Mayokun Oreofe offered fervent prayers for the family, committing them into God’s care and asking for strength, comfort, and peace in the days ahead.
In an emotional yet composed vote of thanks, her husband, Mr. Michael Effiong James, expressed deep gratitude to all who stood by the family during this difficult period. His words, though brief, carried the weight of love, loss, and appreciation.
The service was brought to a solemn close with a prayer by Pastor Modupe Agboola, leaving behind an atmosphere of quiet reflection and spiritual peace.
The gathering was graced by an impressive array of dignitaries and prominent personalities, including the Governor of Akwa Ibom State, His Excellency Pastor Umo Eno; Chairman, Ovation Media Group, Aare Dele Momodu; Secretary to the Akwa Ibom State Government, Prince Enobong Uwah; former First Lady of Kwara State, Mrs. Toyin Saraki; Hon. Aniekan Umana; Akwa Ibom State Commissioner for Information, Barrister Enobong Umo Essien; Engineer Uwem Okokon; Editor, Ovation International, Mr. Eric Elezuo; Captain of 9JC, Mr. Kingsley James; Governor Rotary Club District 9111, Prince Akinyele; Pastor Ituah Ighodalo; Mr. Kofo Coker; renowned photojournalist Dayo Adedayo; Steve Ayorinde; Mr. Charles Udoh; Mr. Yinka Oyedeji; Mr. Greg Uanseru; Alhaji Hakeem Smith; AFRIMA President, Mr. Mike Dada; Rotarian Omotunde Lawson, and Publisher, Yes Magazine, Mr. Azuh Arinze.
The following day, the final rites continued with a funeral service held at the same venue, where Pastor Bolu Oluyomi delivered a sermon that further emphasized the hope of eternal life and the promise of resurrection. The sermon was followed by a documentary on the life and times of Mrs James, eliciting emotional outbursts from congregants, before a prayer was said for the family members by the Very Reverend Segun Ladeinde of the Cathedral Church of Christ, Lagos.
After the service, her remains were laid to rest in a private interment ceremony attended by close family members and loved ones.
Photos: Koya Adegbite, Ken Ehimen and Funmi Ilelabayo