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Sorrow, Tears, Love As Ex-Ovation Editor, Mike Effiong, Buries Wife, Kemi in Lagos

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By Ruth Akpan

In an atmosphere thick with emotion yet illuminated by grace, family, friends, and dignitaries gathered at the serene Stella Hall of the Daystar Christian Centre, Oregun, Lagos, to bid a solemn and deeply moving farewell to Mrs. Oluwakemi Oyeteju James – a woman whose presence, though now stilled, continues to echo in the hearts of all who knew her.

She was the beloved wife of Mr. Michael Effiong James, former Editor at Ovation International and presently the Senior Special Assistant to the Governor of Akwa Ibom State (Lagos Liaison).

Kemi, as she is fondly called, stood as a beacon of love, a nurturing matriarch, and a woman whose kindness left indelible imprints on countless lives. Her passing marked not just the end of a life, but the transition of a soul whose presence had become a comforting constant to many.

The Service of Songs, meticulously coordinated by the Thriving Business Women Fellowship—a group she served with uncommon zeal and devotion—unfolded with an air of reverent elegance. It was an evening steeped in faith, reflection, and heartfelt gratitude for a life that had given so much.

Pastor Mercy Adeyemo opened the service with a deeply touching prayer, her voice resonating with compassion as she committed the gathering into God’s hands and sought divine comfort for the bereaved family. The congregation soon lifted their voices in the timeless hymn “In Christ Alone,” a powerful declaration of faith that seemed to echo Mrs. James’ unwavering spiritual foundation.

The scripture readings that followed were delivered with heartfelt emotion. Her daughter, Kufre Oluwatoni James, opened with the first Bible reading, her voice steady yet laced with emotion. Anietienteabasi Oluwatobi James, her son, delivered the second reading, while Miss Oluwatosin Oyediran completed the trio with a reflective third passage. Each reading served as a gentle reminder of the eternal promises of God and the hope of life beyond.

The Victory Choir, with their soul-stirring melodies and harmonious renditions, elevated the atmosphere into a sanctuary of worship, their voices resonating with both sorrow and celebration – a fitting tribute to a life well lived.

One of the most poignant highlights of the evening was the screening of a carefully curated video documentary, a visual chronicle that captured the many seasons of Mrs. James’ life. From her radiant smile to her quiet acts of kindness, from cherished family moments to her unwavering commitment to service, the montage painted a portrait of a woman whose life was richly woven with love, purpose, and grace.

Delivering a deeply reflective exhortation titled “A Treasure in Your Life,” Pastor Ituah Ighodalo offered words that resonated profoundly with the gathering. Drawing from 1 Peter 5:8–9, he reminded everyone of the importance of valuing the people God places in their lives, urging them to live with gratitude and to remain steadfast in the face of life’s unpredictability. His message, both sobering and uplifting, underscored the reality that while life is filled with challenges, it is ultimately designed by God for a greater good.

Then came the tributes—each one a heartfelt outpouring of love, admiration, and deep personal connection.

Her children, Kufre Oluwatoni James and Anietienteabasi Oluwatobi James, delivered touching tributes that reflected the profound bond they shared with their mother. Their words painted the portrait of a woman who was not only a parent but a guide, a confidante, and an ever-present source of strength and encouragement.

Mr. Adeola Owolabi, speaking with visible emotion, described her as a dear daughter and cousin who was intentional in her relationships—ever present, ever willing, and ever ready to give. He emphasized her role as a unifying force, a bridge that connected family members and nurtured lasting bonds.

Representing the Ojikutu family, Alhaji Abdul Smith recalled her unwavering support in family matters, noting how she consistently took the lead in organizing and anchoring family celebrations. Her absence, he remarked, would be deeply felt.

For the Macaulay family, Mr. Ayo Ogunlana delivered a stirring tribute that captured both the pain of loss and the beauty of cherished memories. He spoke of her as more than a niece—she was a confidante, a guiding light, and a source of unwavering support. He fondly remembered her honesty, her infectious laughter, and her courageous fight for life until her passing on March 12, describing her as a beacon of kindness whose legacy would endure.

Mr. Asuquo James, on behalf of the James family, described her as a virtuous woman and a powerful unifier whose presence commanded love and admiration. Like a colossus, he said, she drew people to herself, leaving a lasting imprint on everyone she encountered.

In a deeply affectionate tribute, Mrs. Gbemisola Aluko spoke of a woman whose kindness knew no limits—empathetic, generous, and deeply intentional. She recalled how Mrs. James expressed her love through acts of service, often ensuring that no one around her lacked care or comfort.

From the Thriving Business Women Fellowship, Pastor Funmilola Ifebodun paid tribute to a devoted member fondly known as the “Able Leader” within the welfare unit. She highlighted Mrs. James’ unwavering commitment, her zeal for service, and her unmistakable kindness. In a note of spiritual reassurance, she reminded the gathering that this was not a final goodbye, but a transition into eternal glory.

Several other tributes followed from colleagues, friends, and associates, including representatives from the Nigerian Institute of Journalism, the welfare unit, and various social circles. Each tribute reinforced a singular truth—that Mrs. Oluwakemi Oyeteju James was a rare gem whose life was defined by love, generosity, and purpose.

Pastor Mayokun Oreofe offered fervent prayers for the family, committing them into God’s care and asking for strength, comfort, and peace in the days ahead.

In an emotional yet composed vote of thanks, her husband, Mr. Michael Effiong James, expressed deep gratitude to all who stood by the family during this difficult period. His words, though brief, carried the weight of love, loss, and appreciation.

The service was brought to a solemn close with a prayer by Pastor Modupe Agboola, leaving behind an atmosphere of quiet reflection and spiritual peace.

The gathering was graced by an impressive array of dignitaries and prominent personalities, including the Governor of Akwa Ibom State, His Excellency Pastor Umo Eno; Chairman, Ovation Media Group, Aare Dele Momodu; Secretary to the Akwa Ibom State Government, Prince Enobong Uwah; former First Lady of Kwara State, Mrs. Toyin Saraki; Hon. Aniekan Umana; Akwa Ibom State Commissioner for Information, Barrister Enobong Umo Essien; Engineer Uwem Okokon; Editor, Ovation International, Mr. Eric Elezuo; Captain of 9JC, Mr. Kingsley James; Governor Rotary Club District 9111, Prince Akinyele; Pastor Ituah Ighodalo; Mr. Kofo Coker; renowned photojournalist Dayo Adedayo; Steve Ayorinde; Mr. Charles Udoh; Mr. Yinka Oyedeji; Mr. Greg Uanseru; Alhaji Hakeem Smith; AFRIMA President, Mr. Mike Dada; Rotarian Omotunde Lawson, and Publisher, Yes Magazine, Mr. Azuh Arinze.

The following day, the final rites continued with a funeral service held at the same venue, where Pastor Bolu Oluyomi delivered a sermon that further emphasized the hope of eternal life and the promise of resurrection. The sermon was followed by a documentary on the life and times of Mrs James, eliciting emotional outbursts from congregants, before a prayer was said for the family members by the Very Reverend Segun Ladeinde of the Cathedral Church of Christ, Lagos.

After the service, her remains were laid to rest in a private interment ceremony attended by close family members and loved ones.

Photos: Koya Adegbite, Ken Ehimen and Funmi Ilelabayo 

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Glamour As Oluwatoyosi Ibirinola and Christopher Oladayo Tie Nuptial Knots in Lagos

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When love finds expression in the grandeur of culture, elegance and family values, the result is an unforgettable spectacle. Such was the enchanting atmosphere that enveloped the prestigious Harbour Point Event Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos, as the distinguished families of Oluwatoyosi Ibirinola and Christopher Oladayo came together to celebrate the traditional wedding of their beloved children in a ceremony that radiated the beauty of Yoruba heritage.

Long before the arrival of the bride and groom, the atmosphere had already begun to shimmer with anticipation. Elegantly dressed guests streamed into the exquisitely decorated venue, exchanging warm embraces and pleasantries while admiring the breathtaking ambience carefully crafted for the memorable occasion. The décor radiated understated luxury, blending contemporary sophistication with rich traditional aesthetics to create a setting worthy of the remarkable celebration that was about to unfold.

Masterfully coordinated by the celebrated Zapphaire Events, every aspect of the ceremony reflected precision, creativity and excellence. The seamless organisation ensured that guests experienced an event where elegance met efficiency, allowing family and friends to immerse themselves completely in the joy of the occasion.

The celebration commenced on a spiritual note with an opening prayer led by Mrs. Funmi Coker, whose heartfelt supplications invoked God’s abundant blessings upon the couple, their families and every guest gathered to witness the memorable occasion. It was a solemn yet joyful beginning that perfectly prepared everyone for a day filled with love, laughter and cultural splendour.

Adding extraordinary prestige to the occasion were the Fathers of the Day, distinguished businessman Chief Alex Duduyemi and His Imperial Majesty, the Ooni of Ife, Oba Enitan Adeyeye Ogunwusi, Ojaja II, who was gracefully represented by Her Royal Majesty, Olori Aderonke Ogunwusi. Their presence and support underscored the significance of the union, lending an unmistakable aura of nobility and traditional authority to the proceedings.

Then came the defining moments that make every Yoruba traditional wedding so deeply symbolic and emotionally enriching. Amid melodious traditional music, joyful chants and bursts of applause, members of the groom’s family formally sought the hand of the bride according to cherished customs handed down through generations. The exchange of pleasantries, prayers, blessings and symbolic rites unfolded beautifully, reminding everyone that marriage is not merely the union of two individuals but the coming together of two respected families.

When Toyosi finally made her grand entrance, the hall erupted in admiration. Radiating confidence, elegance and natural beauty, she looked every inch the quintessential Yoruba bride. Her exquisitely designed traditional attire, complemented by regal accessories and flawless makeup, perfectly celebrated the richness of African fashion and culture. Christopher matched her elegance effortlessly, appearing dignified and handsome in a finely tailored agbada that reflected his pride in his heritage. Together, they were the picture of love, refinement and youthful sophistication.

The gathering was a remarkable convergence of royalty, political leaders, captains of industry, traditional rulers, accomplished professionals and prominent figures from Nigeria’s social and cultural landscape. The White Cap Chiefs of Lagos attended on behalf of His Royal Majesty, Oba Rilwan Akiolu, while the ancient throne of Ile-Ife was represented by Her Royal Majesty, Olori Aderonke Ademiluyi. The presence of Erelu Abiola Dosunmu and the graceful Olori Ladun Sijuwade, further elevated the stature of the event.

The political class was impressively represented by former Ekiti State Governor, Dr. Kayode Fayemi; former Delta State Governor, Chief James Onanefe Ibori; and the distinguished Senator Tokunbo Abiru, each joining family and friends in celebrating the joyous union.

The gathering also welcomed an array of influential personalities from Nigeria’s business, media and aristocratic circles. Among them were media icon Mo Abudu, the elegant Mrs. Funmi Goka, Prince Tokunbo Sijuwade, Prince Rasaq Oluwole, Prince Aderemi Sijuwade, Prince Damola Aderemi, Mr. Gbenga Obasa, renowned businessman Mr. Tayo Ayeni and respected industrialist Mr. Tunde Folawiyo. Their presence reflected the immense goodwill, admiration and enduring relationships enjoyed by both families.

As the formal rites gave way to celebration, the atmosphere became even more exhilarating. Music by Faith Band resonated beautifully across the magnificent hall as guests danced with infectious excitement, showered the newlyweds with goodwill and celebrated the union with unrestrained joy.

Guests were treated to an extraordinary display of hospitality. Exquisite cuisine, premium refreshments and impeccable service complemented the grandeur of the event, while every carefully curated detail reflected the hosts’ commitment to excellence and their desire to give their guests an unforgettable experience.

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Intellectual Tour of DMLC: Baze University VC Professor Adeniyi Pours Encomium on Dele Momodu

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By Adeoye Inioluwa Precious and Anjorin Fehintola Stella

The early hours of Saturday, June 27, were spiced by an enriching courtesy visit to the Dele Momodu Leadership Centre by Professor Abiodun Adeniyi, the distinguished Vice Chancellor of Baze University, Abuja.

A respected media scholar, accomplished academic, and intellectual of great repute, Professor Adeniyi was warmly received and taken on a comprehensive tour of the facility, offering him a firsthand experience of the Centre’s vision and unwavering commitment to scholarship, creativity, leadership, and intellectual engagement.

The tour began with the administrative offices, where the Centre’s daily operations and collaborative workspaces reflect a culture of excellence and innovation. He was then introduced to the expansive library, a carefully curated repository of knowledge designed to foster research, critical inquiry, and lifelong learning. From there, he visited the scholars’ rooms, thoughtfully designed spaces that provide resident researchers, writers, and thought leaders with an environment conducive to reflection, study, and the development of ideas.

The visit also showcased the Centre’s unique blend of intellectual purpose and natural beauty. Professor Adeniyi admired the lounge overlooking the sprawling Forest Research Institute of Nigeria (FRIN), whose lush greenery creates a tranquil backdrop that naturally inspires contemplation. The tour concluded upstairs, where he took in the picturesque view of the Centre’s swimming pool, appreciating the architectural harmony between the modern facilities and their serene surroundings.

As he moved through the Centre, Professor Adeniyi repeatedly expressed his admiration for the vision behind it all. Clearly impressed, he remarked that the Centre was a remarkable testament to foresight and determination.

“It takes a lot to envision something like this and bring it to life,” he observed, pausing often to appreciate the thoughtfulness behind the structure and its purpose.

Throughout the tour, he spoke glowingly of Aare Dele Momodu, noting that while many people celebrate him as an accomplished journalist, publisher, and public figure, fewer truly appreciate the depth of his scholarly disposition.

“Many people don’t know just how scholarly he is,” Professor Adeniyi remarked, describing the Centre as a physical reflection of a mind committed to knowledge, mentorship, and nation-building.

Following the tour, Professor Adeniyi met with the Centre’s pioneer, Aare Dele Momodu. Their meeting brought together two accomplished media scholars whose conversation traversed education, leadership, journalism, scholarship, governance, and the evolving role of intellectuals in shaping public discourse and strengthening democratic institutions. The exchange underscored the enduring importance of collaboration between academia, the media, and policy influencers in fostering informed national conversations.

During the discussion, Aare Dele Momodu shared his intention to pursue a PhD. Responding with characteristic warmth and candour, Professor Adeniyi offered thoughtful advice that resonated with everyone present.

“I would not discourage you,” he said, “but it is better to go for a field that strikes you professionally if you want to pursue your PhD.”

His counsel underscored the importance of aligning academic pursuits with one’s professional calling, ensuring that scholarship remains both meaningful and impactful.

The formal conversation eventually gave way to a more relaxed atmosphere as both men shared a meal together. Amid laughter, engaging stories, and warm conversations, the camaraderie between them complemented the rich intellectual exchange that had preceded it.

Hosting Professor Adeniyi was a privilege for the Centre. His distinguished career across journalism, academia, and strategic communication, coupled with his longstanding commitment to ethical media practice, research excellence, and civic engagement, made the visit especially enriching. His thoughtful observations and sincere appreciation of the Centre’s vision affirmed its mission as a platform where ideas flourish, knowledge is exchanged, and visionary leaders gather to inspire the next generation.

Professor Abiodun Adeniyi’s visit was far more than a courtesy call; it was a meeting of minds united by a shared passion for scholarship, media, leadership, and national development. The Centre looks forward to future engagements with Professor Adeniyi and other distinguished thought leaders whose expertise continues to shape public discourse and contribute meaningfully to Nigeria’s intellectual advancement.

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Princess Adenike Ajoke Oladele Celebrates 70 Years of Grace, Influence and Achievements

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Few occasions capture the beauty of a life well lived like the celebration of a 70th birthday. For Princess Adenike Ajoke Oladele, the milestone provided family, friends and well-wishers with the perfect opportunity to pause, reflect and honour a woman whose journey has been defined by elegance, resilience, compassion and remarkable achievements.

The atmosphere was one of admiration rather than mere festivity as guests gathered at the 10 Degrees Event Centre, Oregun, Lagos, for an evening dedicated to celebrating a woman whose life story continues to inspire those around her. It was a gathering where appreciation met celebration, and where the accomplishments, virtues and enduring legacy of the celebrant took centre stage.

Beautifully dressed guests arrived in fashionable ensembles, bringing colour, sophistication and vibrancy to the occasion. The venue itself provided an elegant setting for the memorable event, with its welcoming ambience and refined décor creating the perfect backdrop for an evening of gratitude and joyous celebration.

Proceedings commenced with an inspiring opening prayer delivered by Pastor Adeyemi Adewunmi. His uplifting supplications filled the hall with a spirit of gratitude and reverence as he prayed for continued divine favour, sound health, longevity and greater accomplishments for the celebrant. It was a fitting beginning to an evening dedicated to thanksgiving and celebration.

Anchoring the occasion was the dynamic master of ceremonies, AB Akynz. With his engaging style and ability to connect with guests, he maintained a lively atmosphere while ensuring that each segment of the event unfolded with excitement.

Elegantly attired and radiating grace and timeless beauty, the celebrant made her grand entrance accompanied by her husband as the atmosphere erupted in thunderous applause and joyous excitement.

One of the most touching aspects of the celebration was the outpouring of tributes that greeted Ambassador Princess Adenike Oladele. Family members, close friends and associates took turns recounting inspiring stories that highlighted her generosity, compassion, resilience and commitment to uplifting others. Their heartfelt reflections painted the picture of a woman whose influence extends far beyond titles and accomplishments, reaching deeply into the lives of countless individuals who have benefited from her kindness and guidance.

The ceremonial cutting of the birthday cake provided another memorable moment as family members, friends and loved ones gathered around the celebrant to commemorate the milestone. Amid cheers, applause and celebratory music, the symbolic moment served as a reminder of seven decades of divine favour, accomplishments and cherished memories.

The gathering soon transformed into a lively spectacle of music and merriment as the renowned Q-Band mounted the stage. With their rich blend of contemporary sounds, evergreen classics and energetic performances, the talented musicians kept the atmosphere vibrant throughout the event. Their captivating performance drew guests to the dance floor repeatedly, turning the celebration into a colourful display of joy.

Behind the flawless coordination of the event was Marcus Smith Events, whose meticulous planning and attention to detail ensured that every aspect of the celebration flowed seamlessly. From the elegant ambience to the smooth progression of activities, their touch of professionalism was evident throughout the evening.

 

The evening continued with sumptuous dining, lively entertainment and spirited dancing as guests celebrated late into the night. The dance floor remained animated as attendees joined the celebrant in expressing gratitude and joy through music and dance, creating an atmosphere of pure celebration and camaraderie.

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