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Potentiality Digest: The Demands of Meeting Your Standards

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By Sodeeq Abdulakeem Sulyman
You can’t change the world by giving only leftovers or by performing with mediocrity. Only your best will add value to others and lift them up.” – John C. Maxwell
Every time we set targets and when we reach those targets, there will be a need for us to set another target. That’s how true growth happens. True growth demands raising your head to look ahead of yourself and do everything nobly possible to reach that stage and when you look down again, you could tell yourself how you have been when you were living a life that was below your worth. Great people task themselves to gradually shift from the life they have to the life they want.
That is what you have to realise. For every life is not going to remain the same. If you are not ready to move, life will move you. That is why it is important to cultivate the habit of setting standards for yourself and develop the mindset of sticking to the demands of the standards you have set. The truth is, when you set a standard, you give yourself a yardstick to evaluate yourself, to know whether you are getting it right or wrong.
However, it should be noted that setting standards is not the problem. The problem is meeting the standards you have set; holding yourself responsible and accountable to do what you are expected to do to elevate your game and position yourself for the opportunities you think you deserve. Henry Ukazu submitted that “When you decide to change, you are setting yourself up for growth. Whilst a change can happen overnight, growth always takes time.”
Some people have lost the tracks of their life because they failed to meet up to their standards. When you check the template for their life, there is every indicator that they have standards, but they don’t progress because they don’t hold on to their standards. Instead of empowering themselves to sustain their standards, they are distracted by the noises around them. They are unaware of Gbenga Adebambo’s caution that “Until you become the most important person in your own life, you would be useless to every other person.”
Suleimon Olanrewaju says, “The higher a person goes in life the better positioned he is to serve others.” This is to tell you that when you continuously meet your standards, your life will turn to a double-edged sword where one is meant for you and the other is meant for other people to benefit from you The first thing you should understand in meeting your standards is to know that the cross falls on you, to know that people only come to you because they know they would gain something from you and when you stop meeting their expectations, they would look elsewhere to get what they want!
No one ever amounts to a person of value by not striving to hold on to their standards. Everyday, they stretch to task themselves to be operating at a level that leaves them in awe of themselves. They knew that it may not be easy. But because they have known that inconsistency is not consistent with the life of the great, they remain steadfast in sustaining the values they have inculcated and nourishes their beliefs of the life they dream.
Every pedestal you are on is meant to lift you to a new level of your life. But you can only reach that level when you see that pedestal as an avenue for you to do more and become more, not a venue for you to be stuck in mediocrity. Tope Popoola asserted that “A successful life is not so much about what you achieved but what you become in the process.”
SULYMAN, Sodeeq Abdulakeem is a Freelance Librarian, Author and Humanist. He can be reached via +2348132226994. He is the author of the book titled “The Path to Greatness,” foreword by Henry Ukazu, President and Founder of GLOEMI Inc., The Bronx, New York City, USA. Available 👉 https://bit.ly/Amzn-HS-TP2G

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Dele Momodu: Charismatic Gentleman @65

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By Yemi Edun

Aare Dele Momodu is undoubtedly one of the most recognisable names, voices, and personalities to emerge from the world’s most populous Black nation Nigeria.

Anyone who has travelled with Bob Dee would understand the magnetic presence he carries from Atlanta Georgia, Accra to Nairobi, down to Central London. He receives nods of admiration, requests for photos, and warm pats on the back wherever he goes. A true cultural ambassador, effortlessly at ease in rich native attire, which his commanding presence makes look truly majestic, he wears native outfits like royalty.

He is a consummate storyteller, an indefatigable workhorse, and one of the most selfless and hospitable people I know. His generosity is legendary. Mention Dele Momodu at any Marriott Hotel in East Africa, and you can expect the red carpet to be rolled out.

I was stunned at Kotoka International Airport as immigration and customs officials broke into chants of “Ovation! Ovation!” while we walked through, it was surreal but perfectly fitting for a man so deeply respected.

Bob Dee is at home with the old and young, with royalty and regular folk alike. There are countless moments that reflect his goodness, but allow me to share just one:

In Summer 2023, while holidaying in Accra with my family, Aare generously assigned his Ghanaian chef to us for two full weeks serving delicious meals until we had to kindly ask him to pause! Not long after, he flew into Accra and hosted us at La Chaumiere his favourite upscale French restaurant, where his presence is evidently cherished.

As my daughter and I prepared to return to London, we discovered shockingly that her passport had expired just a day earlier. I had to remain behind to resolve the issue. By divine timing, Bob Dee called to check in, and upon hearing the situation, immediately sent his driver. We spent that night in his elegant Accra home.

The next morning, using her Nigerian passport, we flew into Lagos. On his advice, I contacted Mr. Governor, and thanks to that call and Bob Dee’s understanding of the terrain, a new British passport was issued the same day.

Happy Birthday, Aare. A charismatic gentleman, who treats all with warmth and deserved respect.

@yemiedundf

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A Tribute of Grace to My Younger Brother, Dele Momodu, @65

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By Mama OluwaBunmi Adedayo

My Beloved Aburo,

Your heart beats with the rhythm of compassion,
Your laughter softens the storms of men,
And your pen—yes, that mighty pen—has built bridges where once stood walls.

Today, I speak not only with words,
But with the rhythm of gratitude,
The poetry of love,
And the dance of legacy.

You are more than a name—
You are Dele Momodu.
A spirit of honour.
A vessel of humility.
A generous soul.
A quiet strength wrapped in dignity and thunder.

In you, kindness flows like a river,
And generosity walks hand in hand with wisdom.

You have fed minds, lifted voices,
And sewn hope into the very fabric of Africa.

You write—oh, how you write—
With fire, with elegance, with truth.
You publish, you speak, you dream aloud.
You carry the soul of a president, even when the title passed by.

But allow me this honest moment:
As I turned through the pages of Ovation Magazine,
I searched for a picture of us—
You and I,
Captured in joy, frozen in memory.
But it was not there.

*Yes, I am jealous!*
I say it with a loving smile.
It’s alright… this time.
But when the next milestone arrives,
*When seventy comes knocking—*
*By the grace of God, we shall all be alive.*
And when that time comes,
Let my picture rise with yours,
Let our laughter live in history.
Let it not be forgotten—*again.*

So, as you are honoured today,
And as voices rise in celebration,
Know this, my dear brother:

You are deeply cherished.
You are profoundly celebrated.
And I—your sister, your friend, your family—
Walk with pride in your light.

May joy crown your 65 years,
And may heaven prepare glory for your 70th.

With all my heart and prayers,
Mama OluwaBunmi Adedayo

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Towards a Non-Violent Local Government Election in Lagos State

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By Tola Ogunnubi

The upcoming July 12, 2025 Local Government Election in Lagos State is a litmus test for the 2027 general elections.

The election of executives at the grassroots level to run the affairs of the Local Government has always been a mixture of peace and violence between leading political parties, aspirants, indigenes and settlers in the various area councils. Local government elections is a critical element of democracy and governance which provides a vital pathway for new political participants to engage communities and impact governance from the ground up in their quest for good governance.

In Lagos State, elections have always been characterized with violence and peaceful conducts. Clashes between APC supporters and main opponents’ supporters from the PDP have been reported from various parts of the state like Surulere, Agege, Amuwo-Odofin, Ajeromi Ifelodun, Ojo, Oshodi-Isolo and Kosofe LGAs of the state.

Election violence can diminish voter turnout, influence election outcomes, and erode public trust in the electoral system raising concerns about the legitimacy of results according to Yiaga Africa. Political parties should ensure that the local elections is not a zero sum game, whereby the winners takes it all and the benefits of good governance is limited and retained to only party members and loyalists.

The violence that led to the death of Jide Badaru and one other with several people injured in August 2018 in Surulere Local Government should not be allowed to happen again. According to the cousin of the deceased Mr. Babatunde Badaru, a former Local Government Chairmanship Aspirant in his accounts of the violence that characterizes elections in Surulere LGA.

The wanton destruction of properties, continued threat to lives of opposition supporters should be a thing of the past. Since it is a grassroots election, the African communal sense of being should be displayed during the elections. Perpetrators of electoral violence and their sponsors should be arrested and should be diligently prosecuted so as to deter others who see violence as a viable pathway to electoral victory.

Tola Ogunnubi ANIPR wrote in from Abuja Abuja

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