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Opinion:True Success lies more on the journey rather than the destination

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By Henry Ukazu
Greetings my good friends,
It’s a great pleasure to be here once again. Please pardon my inability for not
been able to write last week. I know some of you might be a little bit
disappointed, honestly, it was due to circumstances beyond my control. I
received so many several calls, emails and messages. I promise to do better
next time. In whatever in life, I always look at the end in mind, in that way I
will be properly guided on where my aim and vision in life lies. This is the
more reason why I take my time in writing every week even when I am
stressed up because I am addicted to sharing motivational and inspiring
articles. As you all may know success in life has to do more with the journey
rather than the destination.
Today, I chose to write on the relativity of journey and destination as
facilitators of success. Just like any other aspect of life, life is indeed a
process. You may heard of the saying success is more of a journey, rather than
destination. Some other rational minds opine that the end justifies the means.
These assertions are relatively true, however, it all depends on the angle you
are looking at it from. We shall be comparing on both factors today but we
shall be concentrating more energy on the process (journey).
It is an indisputable fact that in life the journey of a thousand miles begins
with a step in the right direction. It is also a fact that little drops of water
makes an ocean. Just like a leader needs a team to achieve success, same way
success needs to be processed in order for it to be truly justified. With my little
knowledge and understanding of mathematics, the process of arriving at the
answer via the formula generates more point more that the actual answer
itself. True success doesn’t work in isolation. It works in harmony and unison
with other component parts and characteristics which I call siblings and
friends.
As human beings, sometimes we seem to neglect how far we have come in life.
We are always eager to see what we lack as opposed to appreciating what we
have. Human beings by nature can be ungrateful. The same analogy is
applicable to the journey of success. Let’s take the example of an accomplished
author who is now a bestseller. The journey to the top wasn’t easy. He/she had
mentors who inspired him/her to write the book, publishers, family members,
friends and associates who contributed in one way or the other to the work a
  • great success. To me, they are the real MVP’s as far as I am concerned. They
    are the people who deserve the main accolades and should be appreciated, but
    sometimes some irrational beings tend to forget those people who contracted
    to their success. Also, if a student excels in life to an enviable position in the
    world (President, CEO, Governor) etc. It will be nice for such person to
    remember his/her teacher who groomed him/her. It is on this context we shall
    be discussing about journey and destination to success.
    It is interest to note that Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay literally went
    where no other human had been when they became the first people to reach
    the peak of Mount Everest. Can you imagine what they must have felt? Pride,
    accomplishment, fulfillment. Question, did they achieve it alone? No, I guess.
    Think about the most important achievement in your life. Remember that
    feeling when you finally reached the summit of your academic career, political
    ambition, financial status and professional career. If you will agree with me,
    you didn’t do it alone, there were people behind it and it was truly a journey
    and process.
    Last week I was listening to Joyce Meyers – a charismatic preacher. She was
    speaking on everyday life. In that message, she said true success lies in the
    little deeds and things you do daily as opposed to one major task you do.
    According to her you need to do small task nor matter how little it is in your
    daily routine which will add up to the goal you have in mind.
    To understand how the journey of success really works, imagine yourself being
    a man or lady who needs a particular shape, it is expected that you’ll hit the
    gym at least three times a week and do some work out. You’ll follow up the
    also the process with a good hygiene. In fact, I personally feel the highest gym
    is in your kitchen. Let’s face it, it’s common to feel resistance when
    undertaking a new exercise habit. This is because there are several steps
    required. You have to pack your gym bag, travel to the gym, change into your
    workout clothes, warm up, exercise, warm down, shower, and change back
    into your normal clothes before traveling back home. This is the attitude and
    mindset which a rational mind desirous of making an impact should have. It
    is the process that denes the destination. Isn’t it true that you
    can easily spot a dedicated and discipline student or athletic. who is doing
    what he or she needs to be do in order to succeed in life? It’s always important
    to take note of the journey or inventory of all stocks.
    It is quite unfortunate that many people regard the destination more than the
    journey. In as much I agree that the outcome/ nished product
  • is very important, it is worthy to mention the sacrice,
    challenges, failures, people and the experience that came it
    with it.
    Let’s discuss some worthy points that will assist us in appreciating the role of
    process and journey to our dream destination.
    Get specic
    Having the end in mind is very important. Being specific helps your overall
    goal and road map in order to get to your destination. When you are specific,
    you will know what to focus on. One quality of every great man or woman is
    that they are very focused and specific in whatever they plan to achieve.
    Employers’ are always looking for specific beings to solve specific problems.
    The more specific you are, the easier it is for people to assist or work with you.
    Break it down and start small
    If you have a goal to accomplish, it is always better to start small and grown.
    You can do this by breaking it down and taking it bit and bits. Try to do little
    things every day nor matter how little and stressful, it gives some level of
    satisfaction. Breaking the journey in pieces helps you to appreciate the
    journey.
    Celebrate the progress and enjoy the journey
    When it’s not all about the goal, you can take it all in (and take what
    you’ve learned with you).
    When you have a big goal, it’s tempting to think you haven’t succeeded until
    you’ve achieved it. Otherwise, you might think you have failed forgetting that
    the set backs propels you to appreciate the progress and accomplishments that
    awaits you. According to Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, professor of Business
    Psychology at University College London, he observed that small milestones
    are powerful for seeing a change in the positive direction, noting that “the
    point is not to get better than others, it’s to get better than the old version of
    yourself.” Keep track of what you’ve accomplished with a done list,
    which is a log of the tasks you’ve completed. Seeing your progress
    boosts motivation, heightens positive emotions, and sustains your
    productivity. A Harvard study found that we spend almost 50 percent of our
    time thinking about the past and future, instead of focusing on the present,
    which leads to increased unhappiness
    Reect daily
    Actively thinking and reflecting about your business, idea, product, academic
    major etc. Reflecting daily can help you plan very well. As a rule of thumb, it’s
  • always helpful to set a sizable amount of time during the day to reflect on the
    activities of the day before you sleep and also spending at least fifteen minutes
    of the day to mediate and think when you wake up every morning. By so doing
    you can motivate and inspire yourself when you think the lines are not adding
    up. You can do this by asking yourself “What is one step I can take today to get
    closer to my goal?” “What did I learn today?” You can also check in on a
    weekly or monthly basis to assess what you’ve gotten out of your journey thus
    far.
    Whenever you are tempted to give up in life, always remember the words of
    Brian Tracy, “It doesn’t matter where you are coming from, all that maters is
    where you are going. The past is in the past for a reason, the present is here for
    a reason which is a gift to work with for tomorrow which is not guaranteed.
    In conclusion, always bear in mind “Success is never final. Failure is never
    fatal. In the end it’s the courage to continue that counts.”
    Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York
    City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s
    the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny –
    Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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Glo Wishes Christians Joyous Christmas, Urges More Compassion, Unity

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Nigeria’s technology and telecommunications company, Globacom, has extended warm Christmas greetings to Christians nationwide and globally as they commemorate the birth of Jesus Christ.

Globacom, in a statement on Monday, described the Yuletide as a season of reflection, urging Christians to embody the teachings of Jesus; love, humility, obedience to God, and a steadfast commitment to the welfare of all humanity.

“The noble but lowly circumstances of the birth of Christ teach salient virtues including obedience to God, humility, love for mankind, and a fastidious commitment to the good of all. We urge Christians to commit to practicing these virtues, as followers of Christ,” the company stated.

Globacom also highlighted the responsibility to care for others, noting that Jesus’ act of feeding the multitude (as recorded in the Gospels) serves as a timeless reminder to share and support one another, especially in challenging times.

It called on Nigerians to carry the spirit of Christmas beyond the festive season by reflecting the love and peace that Christ’s birth represents.

The company reassured its customers of uninterrupted, high‑quality services throughout the holidays and encouraged them to leverage its innovative products and services to stay connected and share the season’s joy with family and friends.

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Superiority War: I’ve Exclusive Authority to Confer Titles Across Yorubaland, Says Alaafin

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The Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Abimbola Akeem Owoade I, has stated that only the throne of Oyo has the authority to confer chieftaincy titles that carry the name “Yorubaland.”

The monarch made this declaration during the installation of Senator Abdul-Aziz Yari as Obaloyin of Yorubaland and Barrister Seyi Tinubu as Okanlomo of Yorubaland on Sunday at Aganju Forecourt, Aafin Oyo.

Oba Owoade emphasised that chieftaincy in Yoruba culture is not a matter of favour or decoration but a duty that comes with responsibility.

He explained that the Oyo throne has historically served as a central coordinating authority for the Yoruba people, a role recognised both during colonial administration and in post-independence governance.

The Alaafin highlighted that titles bearing the name “Yorubaland” are collective titles representing the Yoruba people as a whole, not individual towns or kingdoms, and must therefore be conferred by an authority whose reach spans the entire region.

He noted that colonial records, post-independence councils, scholarly works, and the Supreme Court of Nigeria have all affirmed this historical authority.

Oba Owoade described the newly installed titles as positions of trust requiring courage, loyalty, and service to the Yoruba people.

He added that such honours are meant to bind recipients more closely to Yorubaland and reinforce that authority, tradition, and respect for boundaries are central to sustaining Yoruba culture.

He urged the new titleholders to serve with humility and to ensure that their honours contribute to unity, dignity, and the collective good of Yorubaland.

He said: “We are gathered here today for a purpose that goes beyond celebration. We are here to witness history and to place responsibility where tradition has long placed it. Chieftaincy, in our culture, is not an act of favour. It is not decoration. It is duty, conferred only when history, authority, and responsibility align.

“From the earliest organisation of the Yoruba people, authority was never vague. Our forebears understood structure. This understanding gave Yorubaland stability long before modern governance arrived.

“The throne of Oyo emerged in that history as a coordinating authority, by responsibility. When colonial administration came, it did not invent this reality; it encountered it and recorded it. By 1914, Oyo Province had become the largest province in Southern Nigeria, covering 14,381 square miles. It was bounded in the north by Ilorin and Kontagora, in the east by Ondo and Ijebu, in the south by Ijebu and Abeokuta, and in the west by French Dahomey. This reflected recognised leadership over a wide and diverse space.

“This history explains why certain chieftaincy titles are different in nature. Titles that bear the name “Yorubaland” are not local titles. They are collective titles. They speak not for one town or one kingdom, but for the Yoruba people as a whole. Such titles must therefore proceed from an authority whose reach, by history and by law, extends across Yorubaland.

“Today, I do not speak to provoke debate. I speak to state order. Among the Yoruba, authority has never been a matter of assumption or convenience. It has always been a matter of history, structure, and law. Thrones were not created equal in function, even though all are sacred in dignity. From the earliest organization of Yorubaland, the Alaafin of Oyo occupied a central and coordinating authority – an authority that extended beyond the walls of Oyo and into the collective political life of the Yoruba people. This was not self-declared. It was recognised, enforced, and sustained across generations.

“Colonial records acknowledged it. Post-independence councils preserved it. Scholars documented it.

“And finally, the Supreme Court of Nigeria affirmed it. The law is clear. History is settled. Chieftaincy titles that bear the name Yorubaland – titles whose meaning, influence, and obligation are not confined to a single town or kingdom – fall under a singular, established authority. That authority is the throne of Oyo.”

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Why I Visited Nnamdi Kanu in Prison – Alex Otti

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By Eric Elezuo

Governor Alex Otti of Abia State has explained the reasons behind his much talked about visit to the leader of the Indigenous Peoples of Biafra (IPOB), Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, in Sokoto Correctional Centre.

Nnamdi Kanu was found guilty of all the seven count charges of terrorism brought against him by the Federal Government, and sentenced to life imprisonment, by Justice James Omotosho of the Federal High Court, Abuja, on November 20.

The governor also declared his intention to retire from partisan politics after serving as governor of the state.

Governor made these remarks in Umuahia while reacting to a viral video in which an individual berated him for visiting the IPOB leader in Sokoto Correctional Centre recently and alleged that the visit was aimed at positioning him (Otti) for either the presidential or vice presidential ticket. Otti however, denied having any presidential or vice presidential ambition after his governorship role.

According to him, he would not even contest for the senatorial position after serving as governor of Abia State.

Criticisms, he said, are part of democracy, adding that everyone is free to hold an opinion, even as he acknowledged that some criticisms, especially undue ones, are far from being the truth.

His words, “In the first place, that is the beauty of democracy. So, people should hold their opinions, and we respect people’s opinions. And that you hold a different opinion doesn’t mean you are right.

“One of the things he talked about was my ambition after being governor. And I had said it before, and I want to say it again, that by the time I’m done with governorship, I will retire.

“So, I don’t have presidential ambition, nor vice-presidential ambition. I also don’t have senatorial ambition. So, when I finish with the governorship, I’ll retire.

“I came for a mission. And when I deliver that mission, I will give way to younger people. So, he was talking of Igbo presidency. I don’t even understand what that means.

“So, I think if his thesis is based on that assumption, the assumption has collapsed, because he won’t see me on the ballot.

The Abia governor argued that it is important for a political office holder to know when to quit, especially when the politician has done what he is asked to do.

“When you have done what you have been asked to do, you clear, give way for other people. We’ve seen people here, after being governor who went to serve as Local Government Chairman. That’s not what we are. We are not cut out for those kinds of things.

Otti used the forum to explain why he visited Mazi Nnamdi Kanu at the Sokoto prison.

He said, “The second point is about Nnamdi Kanu. And I don’t want to put this matter in the public space so that it doesn’t jeopardise the discussions that I’m having.

“The truth about it is that exactly 24 months ago, I opened up discussions at the highest level on Nnamdi Kanu.

“And going to see him is the right thing to do, because he comes from my state. In fact, he comes from this local government (Umuahia North – the state capital).

“And there are always ways to solve a problem. I don’t believe that the way to solve a problem is to ignore it. And I had written extensively, even about Nnamdi Kanu and Operation Python Dance, I think in 2017 or 2018. And I condemned it.

“And I still condemn it. And some of the recordings that the gentleman put in his video, I cannot vouch for the veracity of that recording.”

Governor Otti maintained that he knows that when an issue has been approached from the legal point of view, there is also another window called the administrative point of view, stressing that, that is where he (the governor) is coming from.

“I’m not a lawyer. And if the judiciary says the man has been condemned to life imprisonment, that is the judiciary. Even that is not the end, because that’s the court of first instance. There is still an opportunity to appeal and then an opportunity to even go to the Supreme Court.

“But what we are trying to do is to intervene. I’m not a supporter of the disintegration of Nigeria.

“So, my position is that it would be insensitive of me to sit here and say one of our own who has been convicted should die when we have an opportunity to discuss, negotiate, and sue for peace. So, that is my position,” he said.

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