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Opinion:True Success lies more on the journey rather than the destination

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By Henry Ukazu
Greetings my good friends,
It’s a great pleasure to be here once again. Please pardon my inability for not
been able to write last week. I know some of you might be a little bit
disappointed, honestly, it was due to circumstances beyond my control. I
received so many several calls, emails and messages. I promise to do better
next time. In whatever in life, I always look at the end in mind, in that way I
will be properly guided on where my aim and vision in life lies. This is the
more reason why I take my time in writing every week even when I am
stressed up because I am addicted to sharing motivational and inspiring
articles. As you all may know success in life has to do more with the journey
rather than the destination.
Today, I chose to write on the relativity of journey and destination as
facilitators of success. Just like any other aspect of life, life is indeed a
process. You may heard of the saying success is more of a journey, rather than
destination. Some other rational minds opine that the end justifies the means.
These assertions are relatively true, however, it all depends on the angle you
are looking at it from. We shall be comparing on both factors today but we
shall be concentrating more energy on the process (journey).
It is an indisputable fact that in life the journey of a thousand miles begins
with a step in the right direction. It is also a fact that little drops of water
makes an ocean. Just like a leader needs a team to achieve success, same way
success needs to be processed in order for it to be truly justified. With my little
knowledge and understanding of mathematics, the process of arriving at the
answer via the formula generates more point more that the actual answer
itself. True success doesn’t work in isolation. It works in harmony and unison
with other component parts and characteristics which I call siblings and
friends.
As human beings, sometimes we seem to neglect how far we have come in life.
We are always eager to see what we lack as opposed to appreciating what we
have. Human beings by nature can be ungrateful. The same analogy is
applicable to the journey of success. Let’s take the example of an accomplished
author who is now a bestseller. The journey to the top wasn’t easy. He/she had
mentors who inspired him/her to write the book, publishers, family members,
friends and associates who contributed in one way or the other to the work a
  • great success. To me, they are the real MVP’s as far as I am concerned. They
    are the people who deserve the main accolades and should be appreciated, but
    sometimes some irrational beings tend to forget those people who contracted
    to their success. Also, if a student excels in life to an enviable position in the
    world (President, CEO, Governor) etc. It will be nice for such person to
    remember his/her teacher who groomed him/her. It is on this context we shall
    be discussing about journey and destination to success.
    It is interest to note that Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay literally went
    where no other human had been when they became the first people to reach
    the peak of Mount Everest. Can you imagine what they must have felt? Pride,
    accomplishment, fulfillment. Question, did they achieve it alone? No, I guess.
    Think about the most important achievement in your life. Remember that
    feeling when you finally reached the summit of your academic career, political
    ambition, financial status and professional career. If you will agree with me,
    you didn’t do it alone, there were people behind it and it was truly a journey
    and process.
    Last week I was listening to Joyce Meyers – a charismatic preacher. She was
    speaking on everyday life. In that message, she said true success lies in the
    little deeds and things you do daily as opposed to one major task you do.
    According to her you need to do small task nor matter how little it is in your
    daily routine which will add up to the goal you have in mind.
    To understand how the journey of success really works, imagine yourself being
    a man or lady who needs a particular shape, it is expected that you’ll hit the
    gym at least three times a week and do some work out. You’ll follow up the
    also the process with a good hygiene. In fact, I personally feel the highest gym
    is in your kitchen. Let’s face it, it’s common to feel resistance when
    undertaking a new exercise habit. This is because there are several steps
    required. You have to pack your gym bag, travel to the gym, change into your
    workout clothes, warm up, exercise, warm down, shower, and change back
    into your normal clothes before traveling back home. This is the attitude and
    mindset which a rational mind desirous of making an impact should have. It
    is the process that denes the destination. Isn’t it true that you
    can easily spot a dedicated and discipline student or athletic. who is doing
    what he or she needs to be do in order to succeed in life? It’s always important
    to take note of the journey or inventory of all stocks.
    It is quite unfortunate that many people regard the destination more than the
    journey. In as much I agree that the outcome/ nished product
  • is very important, it is worthy to mention the sacrice,
    challenges, failures, people and the experience that came it
    with it.
    Let’s discuss some worthy points that will assist us in appreciating the role of
    process and journey to our dream destination.
    Get specic
    Having the end in mind is very important. Being specific helps your overall
    goal and road map in order to get to your destination. When you are specific,
    you will know what to focus on. One quality of every great man or woman is
    that they are very focused and specific in whatever they plan to achieve.
    Employers’ are always looking for specific beings to solve specific problems.
    The more specific you are, the easier it is for people to assist or work with you.
    Break it down and start small
    If you have a goal to accomplish, it is always better to start small and grown.
    You can do this by breaking it down and taking it bit and bits. Try to do little
    things every day nor matter how little and stressful, it gives some level of
    satisfaction. Breaking the journey in pieces helps you to appreciate the
    journey.
    Celebrate the progress and enjoy the journey
    When it’s not all about the goal, you can take it all in (and take what
    you’ve learned with you).
    When you have a big goal, it’s tempting to think you haven’t succeeded until
    you’ve achieved it. Otherwise, you might think you have failed forgetting that
    the set backs propels you to appreciate the progress and accomplishments that
    awaits you. According to Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, professor of Business
    Psychology at University College London, he observed that small milestones
    are powerful for seeing a change in the positive direction, noting that “the
    point is not to get better than others, it’s to get better than the old version of
    yourself.” Keep track of what you’ve accomplished with a done list,
    which is a log of the tasks you’ve completed. Seeing your progress
    boosts motivation, heightens positive emotions, and sustains your
    productivity. A Harvard study found that we spend almost 50 percent of our
    time thinking about the past and future, instead of focusing on the present,
    which leads to increased unhappiness
    Reect daily
    Actively thinking and reflecting about your business, idea, product, academic
    major etc. Reflecting daily can help you plan very well. As a rule of thumb, it’s
  • always helpful to set a sizable amount of time during the day to reflect on the
    activities of the day before you sleep and also spending at least fifteen minutes
    of the day to mediate and think when you wake up every morning. By so doing
    you can motivate and inspire yourself when you think the lines are not adding
    up. You can do this by asking yourself “What is one step I can take today to get
    closer to my goal?” “What did I learn today?” You can also check in on a
    weekly or monthly basis to assess what you’ve gotten out of your journey thus
    far.
    Whenever you are tempted to give up in life, always remember the words of
    Brian Tracy, “It doesn’t matter where you are coming from, all that maters is
    where you are going. The past is in the past for a reason, the present is here for
    a reason which is a gift to work with for tomorrow which is not guaranteed.
    In conclusion, always bear in mind “Success is never final. Failure is never
    fatal. In the end it’s the courage to continue that counts.”
    Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York
    City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s
    the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny –
    Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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Current Hardship in Nigeria, a Result of Lack of Leadership, Says Atiku

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Former Vice President Atiku Abubakar has attributed Nigeria’s worsening hardship to lack of effective leadership, emphasising the need for sacrifices by political leaders for the collective good.

The former presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), in his Christmas message to Nigerians, called on the nation to confront the root causes of its struggles while embracing unity and love during the festive season.

Atiku extended warm greetings to Christians celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ, urging Nigerians to reflect on the significance of the season.

“It is a blessing that we can once again celebrate the events leading to the birth of Christ, despite the adversity we face,” Atiku said.

He acknowledged the resilience of Nigerians in the face of unprecedented economic and social challenges but lamented the widespread suffering and preventable deaths resulting from poor governance.

“The failure of our leaders to make necessary sacrifices has deepened the hardship and widened the gap between the people and those in power,” he said.

Atiku criticized the lack of visionary leadership in the country, blaming it for the deteriorating quality of life for millions of Nigerians.

He highlighted how poor governance has exacerbated economic difficulties, leaving citizens to bear the brunt of inflation, unemployment, and insecurity.

“Our current struggles are not insurmountable,” Atiku noted, “but addressing them requires leadership that prioritizes the well-being of the people over political expediency.”

Despite his critique of the current administration, Atiku’s message carried a tone of hope and encouragement.

He called on Nigerians to remain united and to confront their shared challenges with love and compassion for one another.

“With love and unity, there is no obstacle too great to overcome. Let us, therefore, come together to share love and joy with all people of goodwill,” he urged.

Atiku also reminded Nigerians of the spirit of Christmas as a time for reflection, gratitude, and selflessness. He encouraged citizens to draw inspiration from the life of Jesus Christ, whose birth symbolizes hope and renewal.

As Nigerians continue to grapple with economic and social instability, Atiku expressed hope for a brighter future, urging all citizens to work together to create a nation that prioritizes the welfare of its people.

“We must not lose sight of our collective strength and potential. With the right leadership and shared determination, Nigeria can rise above its challenges,” he stated.

The PDP chieftain wished all Nigerians a blessed Christmas filled with peace, happiness, and renewed hope for the future.

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Akwa Ibom Gov Disburses N750m Business Grant to 15,000 Youths

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In a historic move to tackle unemployment and empower Akwa Ibom’s youth, Governor Umo Eno has disbursed ₦750 million in unemployment business grants to 15,000 youths across the state. This innovative programme provides ₦50,000 monthly grant to 5,000 beneficiaries, with plans to expand the initiative to a total of 60,000 youths drawn from all 31 Local Government Areas (LGAs) over the next 12 months.

Speaking during the official presentation of the grants at Banquet Hall of Government House, Uyo, Gov Eno described the initiative as a cornerstone of his administration’s commitment to youth empowerment and capacity building.

He urged beneficiaries to utilize the grants for productive ventures that will enhance their personal growth and contribute meaningfully to the state’s economy.

He reaffirmed his administration’s focus on creating opportunities that enable youths to thrive and unlock their full potential, adding that this programme is part of a broader charter to highlight and support the immense talent and resilience of Akwa Ibom youth.

Gov. Eno also announced plans for civil service recruitment through the State Youth Employment Portal.

He encouraged youths to register on the portal, which has been designed to simplify access to jobs and other employment-related initiatives, underscoring his administration’s commitment to transparency and inclusivity in public service recruitment.

Additionally, the governor highlighted several complementary programmes aimed at building youth capacity, including Ibom LED, the Dakkada Skills Acquisition Centre, and the Ibom Community Watch initiative. These initiatives provide vital training, mentorship, and job creation opportunities for young people, equipping them with the skills needed to succeed in today’s competitive economy.

Describing the selection process, SSA on ICT, Dr. Frank Ekpenyong said beneficiaries where chosen through an unbiased and thorough process.

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Ahead Christmas, It’s Glo’s Feliz Navidad All the Way on TVCs

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Celebratory seasons, such as Christmas and New Year, are times when corporate organisations churn out new television commercials (TVCs) to connect with their customers and share the fun,  euphoria and uncommon conviviality of such seasons.

One such organization which has over the years used this strategy to great effect is Nigeria’s top telecommunications brand, Globacom.

The exciting commercials that the technology company keeps rolling out fan the delight and elation of the season of goodwill. The brand employs the occasion not only to   promote brand awareness but to felicitate its customers and the nation at large.

It is a tradition Glo has established. Since it started operations  in 2003, it has always used television commercials as veritable tools of ensuring brand presence, marketing products and services and spreading joy among its various targets.

The 2024 Yuletide adverts it rolled out recently are not different. The two unique yet powerful commercials serve dual purposes. They felicitate the Nigerian people and spread mirth, which the season typifies, around existing and prospective customers.

Expectedly, the two new  commercials have dominated the airwaves, and kept viewers talking and relishing  the joy that Christmas brings.

The first commercial features juju music maestro, King Sunday Adegeye, popularly called King Sunny Ade, who parades a full ensemble of dancers and a rich, talented band in the TVC tagged “Merry Christmas”. The percussions, rhythm and dance merge to foster affability and enchanting memories of the season of glad tidings.

Before the party celebration where King Sunny and his band entertain guests, the TVC takes viewers back to the 1970s and 1980s when Christmas was celebrated with so much fanfare. It paints a vivid picture of rural Nigeria during Christmas where the warmth of tradition and community fills the air. The village with lush green vegetation is buzzing with excitement, with children playing, women cooking delicious meals in open-air kitchens, the aroma of local dishes (you can literally perceive it) mixing with the sounds of Afro Juju music. Families and friends gather around, dancing joyfully to the rhythmic beats, their faces beaming with happiness as they celebrate the festive season. A woman bearing the Aso ebi for the party is shown coming down from a Peugeot 504 car which also reinforces the advert as being set in the 1980s.

The television commercial by the telecom company captures the essence of togetherness, blending the cultural richness of rural life with the spirit of Christmas, all while subtly underscoring the telecom brand’s role in connecting loved ones, no matter how far apart they may be. It ends with “Better don come. Merry Christmas, Nigeria” further underscoring the reason for the commercial.

The second commercial tagged “Feliz Navidad” uses a galaxy of known artistes including  Nollywood star, Timini Egbuson, as well as Uche Nwaefuna (Uchemontana), Chigozie Stephanie Alichi (Chizzy Alichi), Tomi Ojo, Eronini Osinachim, Kiki Bakare and Tope Adenibuyan (Teddy A)  to pass across the message of Christmas.

At the heart of the Christmas party, the energy is electric as tap dancers take center stage, their feet tapping out intricate rhythms that blend seamlessly with the upbeat melody of Feliz Navidad. The sound of their shoes striking the floor creates a lively pulse, complementing the lively tunes of the music band performers who bring the festive song to life with vibrant instruments and harmonious vocals. Laughter and cheer fill the air as all come together to toast the season, sharing in the joy of music, movement, and the warmth of the Christmas spirit. The scene is a vibrant celebration of culture, unity, and festive joy, all set to the timeless sounds of Feliz Navidad.

These commercials  have further endeared  the Glo brand to its subscribers and the general Nigerian public as they enjoy the geniality of the season of love, hope, gifts and celebrations.

Talking about the Yuletide commercials, Ademide Gafar, an industry watcher opined that churning out great TVCs is one of the selling points of the Glo brand while John Michael, a marketing communications expert, noted that Globacom is not just a leader in the telecommunications sector but a prominent creator of unforgettable commercials. From the nation’s pride in telecommunications, it’s Feliz Navidad-Merry Christmas!

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