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Opinion:True Success lies more on the journey rather than the destination

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By Henry Ukazu
Greetings my good friends,
It’s a great pleasure to be here once again. Please pardon my inability for not
been able to write last week. I know some of you might be a little bit
disappointed, honestly, it was due to circumstances beyond my control. I
received so many several calls, emails and messages. I promise to do better
next time. In whatever in life, I always look at the end in mind, in that way I
will be properly guided on where my aim and vision in life lies. This is the
more reason why I take my time in writing every week even when I am
stressed up because I am addicted to sharing motivational and inspiring
articles. As you all may know success in life has to do more with the journey
rather than the destination.
Today, I chose to write on the relativity of journey and destination as
facilitators of success. Just like any other aspect of life, life is indeed a
process. You may heard of the saying success is more of a journey, rather than
destination. Some other rational minds opine that the end justifies the means.
These assertions are relatively true, however, it all depends on the angle you
are looking at it from. We shall be comparing on both factors today but we
shall be concentrating more energy on the process (journey).
It is an indisputable fact that in life the journey of a thousand miles begins
with a step in the right direction. It is also a fact that little drops of water
makes an ocean. Just like a leader needs a team to achieve success, same way
success needs to be processed in order for it to be truly justified. With my little
knowledge and understanding of mathematics, the process of arriving at the
answer via the formula generates more point more that the actual answer
itself. True success doesn’t work in isolation. It works in harmony and unison
with other component parts and characteristics which I call siblings and
friends.
As human beings, sometimes we seem to neglect how far we have come in life.
We are always eager to see what we lack as opposed to appreciating what we
have. Human beings by nature can be ungrateful. The same analogy is
applicable to the journey of success. Let’s take the example of an accomplished
author who is now a bestseller. The journey to the top wasn’t easy. He/she had
mentors who inspired him/her to write the book, publishers, family members,
friends and associates who contributed in one way or the other to the work a
  • great success. To me, they are the real MVP’s as far as I am concerned. They
    are the people who deserve the main accolades and should be appreciated, but
    sometimes some irrational beings tend to forget those people who contracted
    to their success. Also, if a student excels in life to an enviable position in the
    world (President, CEO, Governor) etc. It will be nice for such person to
    remember his/her teacher who groomed him/her. It is on this context we shall
    be discussing about journey and destination to success.
    It is interest to note that Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay literally went
    where no other human had been when they became the first people to reach
    the peak of Mount Everest. Can you imagine what they must have felt? Pride,
    accomplishment, fulfillment. Question, did they achieve it alone? No, I guess.
    Think about the most important achievement in your life. Remember that
    feeling when you finally reached the summit of your academic career, political
    ambition, financial status and professional career. If you will agree with me,
    you didn’t do it alone, there were people behind it and it was truly a journey
    and process.
    Last week I was listening to Joyce Meyers – a charismatic preacher. She was
    speaking on everyday life. In that message, she said true success lies in the
    little deeds and things you do daily as opposed to one major task you do.
    According to her you need to do small task nor matter how little it is in your
    daily routine which will add up to the goal you have in mind.
    To understand how the journey of success really works, imagine yourself being
    a man or lady who needs a particular shape, it is expected that you’ll hit the
    gym at least three times a week and do some work out. You’ll follow up the
    also the process with a good hygiene. In fact, I personally feel the highest gym
    is in your kitchen. Let’s face it, it’s common to feel resistance when
    undertaking a new exercise habit. This is because there are several steps
    required. You have to pack your gym bag, travel to the gym, change into your
    workout clothes, warm up, exercise, warm down, shower, and change back
    into your normal clothes before traveling back home. This is the attitude and
    mindset which a rational mind desirous of making an impact should have. It
    is the process that denes the destination. Isn’t it true that you
    can easily spot a dedicated and discipline student or athletic. who is doing
    what he or she needs to be do in order to succeed in life? It’s always important
    to take note of the journey or inventory of all stocks.
    It is quite unfortunate that many people regard the destination more than the
    journey. In as much I agree that the outcome/ nished product
  • is very important, it is worthy to mention the sacrice,
    challenges, failures, people and the experience that came it
    with it.
    Let’s discuss some worthy points that will assist us in appreciating the role of
    process and journey to our dream destination.
    Get specic
    Having the end in mind is very important. Being specific helps your overall
    goal and road map in order to get to your destination. When you are specific,
    you will know what to focus on. One quality of every great man or woman is
    that they are very focused and specific in whatever they plan to achieve.
    Employers’ are always looking for specific beings to solve specific problems.
    The more specific you are, the easier it is for people to assist or work with you.
    Break it down and start small
    If you have a goal to accomplish, it is always better to start small and grown.
    You can do this by breaking it down and taking it bit and bits. Try to do little
    things every day nor matter how little and stressful, it gives some level of
    satisfaction. Breaking the journey in pieces helps you to appreciate the
    journey.
    Celebrate the progress and enjoy the journey
    When it’s not all about the goal, you can take it all in (and take what
    you’ve learned with you).
    When you have a big goal, it’s tempting to think you haven’t succeeded until
    you’ve achieved it. Otherwise, you might think you have failed forgetting that
    the set backs propels you to appreciate the progress and accomplishments that
    awaits you. According to Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, professor of Business
    Psychology at University College London, he observed that small milestones
    are powerful for seeing a change in the positive direction, noting that “the
    point is not to get better than others, it’s to get better than the old version of
    yourself.” Keep track of what you’ve accomplished with a done list,
    which is a log of the tasks you’ve completed. Seeing your progress
    boosts motivation, heightens positive emotions, and sustains your
    productivity. A Harvard study found that we spend almost 50 percent of our
    time thinking about the past and future, instead of focusing on the present,
    which leads to increased unhappiness
    Reect daily
    Actively thinking and reflecting about your business, idea, product, academic
    major etc. Reflecting daily can help you plan very well. As a rule of thumb, it’s
  • always helpful to set a sizable amount of time during the day to reflect on the
    activities of the day before you sleep and also spending at least fifteen minutes
    of the day to mediate and think when you wake up every morning. By so doing
    you can motivate and inspire yourself when you think the lines are not adding
    up. You can do this by asking yourself “What is one step I can take today to get
    closer to my goal?” “What did I learn today?” You can also check in on a
    weekly or monthly basis to assess what you’ve gotten out of your journey thus
    far.
    Whenever you are tempted to give up in life, always remember the words of
    Brian Tracy, “It doesn’t matter where you are coming from, all that maters is
    where you are going. The past is in the past for a reason, the present is here for
    a reason which is a gift to work with for tomorrow which is not guaranteed.
    In conclusion, always bear in mind “Success is never final. Failure is never
    fatal. In the end it’s the courage to continue that counts.”
    Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York
    City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s
    the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny –
    Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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How Glo Network Became the Lifeline That Saved Two Lives: A True Story from Sallari

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By Dr. Sani Sa’idu Baba

It was one of those calm, bright mornings in Sallari, a town in Tarauni Local Government Area of Kano State. I had gone to visit my longtime friend and colleague, Dr. Muhammad Umar Abdullahi, at his private facility, Rauda Clinic and Maternity. We were in his office discussing research, the usual challenges of medical practice, and other issues when the sound of hurried footsteps and anxious voices broke the calm. A young man rushed in, calling for the doctor.

Without hesitation, Dr. Muhammad sprang into action. I followed him instinctively. Within moments, two people burst through the gate, one man carrying a weak, heavily pregnant woman in his arms. Her breathing was shallow and wheezy, her face pale, and her body trembling between labor contractions and an asthma crisis. The scene was intense, we both knew that every second counted.

The team quickly moved her to the emergency bed. The Chief Medical Director Dr. Muhammad and his nurses worked swiftly to stabilize her breathing and monitor the baby. Oxygen was connected, IV lines were set, and within minutes, her breathing began to steady. The baby’s heartbeat was strong. After a short but tense period, she delivered a healthy baby girl. Relief filled the room like a gentle wind.

At that moment, I couldn’t help but admire the efficiency and dedication of Rauda Clinic and Maternity. The facility operated with the precision and compassion of a modern hospital. Every member of the team knew their role, every piece of equipment was in place, and the environment radiated calm professionalism. It reminded me that quality healthcare is not only about infrastructure, but about commitment and readiness when it truly matters. Rauda Clinic stood out that day as a quiet pillar of excellence and hope for patients and families alike.

The following day, I placed a call to Dr. Muhammad to ask about the condition of the woman who had been brought in the previous morning. He sounded cheerful and relieved. “Both mother and baby are fine now,” he said. Then, with deep reflection in his voice, he narrated the extraordinary story behind their survival, a story that showed how a single phone call, made at the right moment, became the bridge between life and death. As I listened to him recount the events, I couldn’t help but marvel at how sometimes, survival depends not only on medicine but also on connection.

Her name was Amina, a mother of three. That morning, she was alone at home, her husband was in Dutse, the capital of Jigawa state where he works, and her children had already gone to school. The first wave of pain came suddenly, followed by a tightening in her chest. Within minutes, she was gasping for air, her asthma worsening with every breath. She reached for her phone to call her husband, but the call wouldn’t go through. She tried again and again, each time, “Network error.”

Her strength was fading fast. She tried to reach her neighbors, but again, no connection. Alone, frightened, and struggling to breathe, she said she felt her end was near. Then, a thought crossed her mind, her maid had left her phone in the sitting room that morning. Gathering the last of her strength, Amina crawled toward the television stand where the phone lay.

When she reached it, she noticed the green SIM icon, it was a Glo line. Hope flickered. But when she tried to make a call, she saw there was no airtime. That could have been the end until she remembered Glo’s Borrow Me Credit service. With trembling fingers, she dialed the Glo borrow me code and she got the credit instantly, and that small credit became her lifeline.

Her first attempt to reach her husband failed. Then she dialed her younger brother, Umar. This time, the call went through immediately. Interestingly, Umar is a Glo user too. Without delay, Umar and his wife rushed to her house, found her collapsed on the floor, and carried her into their car.

On their way, Umar called ahead to alert the doctor, and again, the call went through clearly. By a remarkable coincidence, Dr. Muhammad was also using a Glo line. That seamless connection meant the hospital team was fully prepared by the time they arrived. Within minutes, Amina was stabilized, and both she and her baby were safe.

The next morning, Dr. Muhammad told me that Amina had smiled faintly and said to him, “Doctor, when every other network failed me, Glo answered. If that call hadn’t gone through, I wouldn’t be here today.”

Her words carried a truth that stayed with me. It wasn’t just a patient’s gratitude, it was a testimony about the power of reliable connection. At that moment, Glo wasn’t just a telecommunications network, it was the bridge between life and death, between despair and hope.

In today’s world, a simple phone call can determine whether someone lives or dies. That day reminded me that technology, when dependable, is not just about data speed, it’s about human connection at its most critical. Glo proved to be that connection: steady, available, and trustworthy when it mattered most.

Before she was discharged, she laughed and told the doctor she had already chosen a nickname for her baby “Amira Glo.” They both laughed, but deep down, Dr. Muhammad understood the meaning behind that name. It symbolized gratitude, faith, and survival.

As I ended the call with Dr. Muhammad that day, I felt a quiet pride. I had witnessed not just the miracle of life, but the harmony of medicine, compassion, and reliable technology. Through Rauda Clinic and Maternity, I saw what true service means, dedication without boundaries, and connection that saves.

Amina’s story isn’t an advert, but living proof that sometimes, when every other signal fades, Glo stands firm, and when every other facility seems far away, Rauda Clinic and Maternity remains a beacon of care and excellence.

For patients, families, and health workers alike, Glo is proven to be a network of necessity. It connects life to hope, when every second truly counts…

Dr. Sani Sa’idu Baba writes from Kano, and can be reached via drssbaba@yahoo.com

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Delta Govt Confirms Death of Senator Nwaoboshi at 68

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Senator Peter Onyelukachukwu Nwaoboshi, the former lawmaker who represented Delta North Senatorial District in the National Assembly, has passed away. He was 68.

Reports said that Nwaoboshi died on Friday in Abuja following a brief illness.

His demise was confirmed in a condolence statement issued by the Delta State governor, Rt. Hon. Sheriff Oborevwori.

Expressing sorrow, the governor described Nwaoboshi’s passing as a monumental loss to Delta State, the Anioma nation, and the Nigerian federation.

In the statement by his Chief Press Secretary, Sir Festus Ahon, Governor Oborevwori hailed the late Senator as a “fearless advocate” of the Anioma cause whose contributions to nation-building remain indelible.

The governor recalled Nwaoboshi’s impactful tenure in the Red Chamber, particularly his role as Chairman of the Senate Committee on Niger Delta Affairs.

He noted that Nwaoboshi’s consistent advocacy for the development of the oil-rich region distinguished him as a passionate and committed leader.

“On behalf of the government and people of Delta State, I mourn the passing of my dear friend, Senator Peter Onyelukachukwu Nwaoboshi,” the governor said.

“I extend my heartfelt condolences to his immediate family, the people of Anioma nation, members of the All Progressives Congress (APC), and all those whose lives he touched. I pray that Almighty God grant his soul eternal rest.”

Before his elevation to the Senate in 2015, he served meritoriously as a two-term Chairman of the Peoples’ Democratic Party (PDP) in Delta State, where he was instrumental in consolidating the party’s grip on the State.

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Ribadu’s Office Denies Arming Miyetti Allah in Kwara

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The National Counter Terrorism Centre (NCTC), under the office of the National Security Adviser Mallam Nuhu Ribadu, has refuted claims that it armed members of the Miyetti Allah group for counter-terrorism operations in Kwara State.

The Head of Strategic Communication at NCTC, Mr. Michael Abu, issued the rebuttal on Wednesday in Abuja.

Abu described the reports circulated by some online platforms as false and misleading, saying they misrepresented ongoing security operations in forested areas of the state.

He said that in line with the Terrorism Prevention and Prohibition Act, 2022, it continued to coordinate and support law enforcement, security and intelligence agencies in countering all forms of terrorism across the country.

NCTC spokesman explained that Nigeria’s counter-terrorism efforts guided by the National Counter Terrorism Strategy (NACTEST), involved the deployment of hybrid forces comprising regular security personnel and trained auxiliaries such as hunters and vigilante elements, particularly in difficult terrains.

According to him, the hybrid approach, which was previously deployed with the Civilian Joint Task Force in the North-East, is currently being applied in parts of the North-West and North-Central, including Kwara State, and has recorded several successes against banditry and other criminal activities.

He stressed that the Federal government was not conducting kinetic operations with any socio-cultural group, adding that claims that the Office of the National Security Adviser provided arms to such organisations are unfounded and should be disregarded.

According to him, all auxiliary personnel involved in hybrid operations were recruited directly by authorised security and intelligence agencies after due diligence, and that all operations were conducted strictly in line with the law and established standard operating procedures.

He urged the media to exercise responsibility by protecting sensitive security information and seeking clarification through designated official spokespersons, while advising the public to ignore unverified reports capable of undermining ongoing operations.

He reaffirmed the centre’s commitment to transparency and stakeholder engagement to deepen public understanding of Nigeria’s counter-terrorism efforts.

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