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Opinion:True Success lies more on the journey rather than the destination

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By Henry Ukazu
Greetings my good friends,
It’s a great pleasure to be here once again. Please pardon my inability for not
been able to write last week. I know some of you might be a little bit
disappointed, honestly, it was due to circumstances beyond my control. I
received so many several calls, emails and messages. I promise to do better
next time. In whatever in life, I always look at the end in mind, in that way I
will be properly guided on where my aim and vision in life lies. This is the
more reason why I take my time in writing every week even when I am
stressed up because I am addicted to sharing motivational and inspiring
articles. As you all may know success in life has to do more with the journey
rather than the destination.
Today, I chose to write on the relativity of journey and destination as
facilitators of success. Just like any other aspect of life, life is indeed a
process. You may heard of the saying success is more of a journey, rather than
destination. Some other rational minds opine that the end justifies the means.
These assertions are relatively true, however, it all depends on the angle you
are looking at it from. We shall be comparing on both factors today but we
shall be concentrating more energy on the process (journey).
It is an indisputable fact that in life the journey of a thousand miles begins
with a step in the right direction. It is also a fact that little drops of water
makes an ocean. Just like a leader needs a team to achieve success, same way
success needs to be processed in order for it to be truly justified. With my little
knowledge and understanding of mathematics, the process of arriving at the
answer via the formula generates more point more that the actual answer
itself. True success doesn’t work in isolation. It works in harmony and unison
with other component parts and characteristics which I call siblings and
friends.
As human beings, sometimes we seem to neglect how far we have come in life.
We are always eager to see what we lack as opposed to appreciating what we
have. Human beings by nature can be ungrateful. The same analogy is
applicable to the journey of success. Let’s take the example of an accomplished
author who is now a bestseller. The journey to the top wasn’t easy. He/she had
mentors who inspired him/her to write the book, publishers, family members,
friends and associates who contributed in one way or the other to the work a
  • great success. To me, they are the real MVP’s as far as I am concerned. They
    are the people who deserve the main accolades and should be appreciated, but
    sometimes some irrational beings tend to forget those people who contracted
    to their success. Also, if a student excels in life to an enviable position in the
    world (President, CEO, Governor) etc. It will be nice for such person to
    remember his/her teacher who groomed him/her. It is on this context we shall
    be discussing about journey and destination to success.
    It is interest to note that Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay literally went
    where no other human had been when they became the first people to reach
    the peak of Mount Everest. Can you imagine what they must have felt? Pride,
    accomplishment, fulfillment. Question, did they achieve it alone? No, I guess.
    Think about the most important achievement in your life. Remember that
    feeling when you finally reached the summit of your academic career, political
    ambition, financial status and professional career. If you will agree with me,
    you didn’t do it alone, there were people behind it and it was truly a journey
    and process.
    Last week I was listening to Joyce Meyers – a charismatic preacher. She was
    speaking on everyday life. In that message, she said true success lies in the
    little deeds and things you do daily as opposed to one major task you do.
    According to her you need to do small task nor matter how little it is in your
    daily routine which will add up to the goal you have in mind.
    To understand how the journey of success really works, imagine yourself being
    a man or lady who needs a particular shape, it is expected that you’ll hit the
    gym at least three times a week and do some work out. You’ll follow up the
    also the process with a good hygiene. In fact, I personally feel the highest gym
    is in your kitchen. Let’s face it, it’s common to feel resistance when
    undertaking a new exercise habit. This is because there are several steps
    required. You have to pack your gym bag, travel to the gym, change into your
    workout clothes, warm up, exercise, warm down, shower, and change back
    into your normal clothes before traveling back home. This is the attitude and
    mindset which a rational mind desirous of making an impact should have. It
    is the process that denes the destination. Isn’t it true that you
    can easily spot a dedicated and discipline student or athletic. who is doing
    what he or she needs to be do in order to succeed in life? It’s always important
    to take note of the journey or inventory of all stocks.
    It is quite unfortunate that many people regard the destination more than the
    journey. In as much I agree that the outcome/ nished product
  • is very important, it is worthy to mention the sacrice,
    challenges, failures, people and the experience that came it
    with it.
    Let’s discuss some worthy points that will assist us in appreciating the role of
    process and journey to our dream destination.
    Get specic
    Having the end in mind is very important. Being specific helps your overall
    goal and road map in order to get to your destination. When you are specific,
    you will know what to focus on. One quality of every great man or woman is
    that they are very focused and specific in whatever they plan to achieve.
    Employers’ are always looking for specific beings to solve specific problems.
    The more specific you are, the easier it is for people to assist or work with you.
    Break it down and start small
    If you have a goal to accomplish, it is always better to start small and grown.
    You can do this by breaking it down and taking it bit and bits. Try to do little
    things every day nor matter how little and stressful, it gives some level of
    satisfaction. Breaking the journey in pieces helps you to appreciate the
    journey.
    Celebrate the progress and enjoy the journey
    When it’s not all about the goal, you can take it all in (and take what
    you’ve learned with you).
    When you have a big goal, it’s tempting to think you haven’t succeeded until
    you’ve achieved it. Otherwise, you might think you have failed forgetting that
    the set backs propels you to appreciate the progress and accomplishments that
    awaits you. According to Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, professor of Business
    Psychology at University College London, he observed that small milestones
    are powerful for seeing a change in the positive direction, noting that “the
    point is not to get better than others, it’s to get better than the old version of
    yourself.” Keep track of what you’ve accomplished with a done list,
    which is a log of the tasks you’ve completed. Seeing your progress
    boosts motivation, heightens positive emotions, and sustains your
    productivity. A Harvard study found that we spend almost 50 percent of our
    time thinking about the past and future, instead of focusing on the present,
    which leads to increased unhappiness
    Reect daily
    Actively thinking and reflecting about your business, idea, product, academic
    major etc. Reflecting daily can help you plan very well. As a rule of thumb, it’s
  • always helpful to set a sizable amount of time during the day to reflect on the
    activities of the day before you sleep and also spending at least fifteen minutes
    of the day to mediate and think when you wake up every morning. By so doing
    you can motivate and inspire yourself when you think the lines are not adding
    up. You can do this by asking yourself “What is one step I can take today to get
    closer to my goal?” “What did I learn today?” You can also check in on a
    weekly or monthly basis to assess what you’ve gotten out of your journey thus
    far.
    Whenever you are tempted to give up in life, always remember the words of
    Brian Tracy, “It doesn’t matter where you are coming from, all that maters is
    where you are going. The past is in the past for a reason, the present is here for
    a reason which is a gift to work with for tomorrow which is not guaranteed.
    In conclusion, always bear in mind “Success is never final. Failure is never
    fatal. In the end it’s the courage to continue that counts.”
    Henry Ukazu writes from New York. He works with New York
    City Department of Correction as the legal Coordinator. He’s
    the author of the acclaimed book Design Your Destiny –
    Actualizing Your Birthright To Success.
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Ooni Felicitates with Bashorun Dele Momodu on His 65th Birthday

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The House of Oduduwa, under the leadership of Arole Oduduwa Olofin Adimula, Ooni Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, CFR, Ojaja II, the Ooni of Ife joyfully celebrates a distinguished son of source, Bashorun Ayòbámidélé Àbáyòmí Ojútelégàn Àjàní Momodu, as he marks his 65th birthday.

Born in the sacred city of Ile-Ife, the cradle of Yoruba civilization, Bashorun Dele Momodu’s journey from humble beginnings to becoming a global media icon epitomizes his delegence, bravery and wisdom. Despite losing his father at the tender age of 13, he rose above challenges, guided by the unwavering support of his mother and the nurturing environment of the House of Oduduwa.

An alumnus of Obafemi Awolowo University, he earned degrees in Yoruba and English Literature, reflecting a deep appreciation for his cultural heritage and a commitment to intellectual excellence. His early career saw him serve as a private secretary to the former Deputy Governor of Ondo State and later manage Motel Royal Limited under the auspices of the late Ooni Okunade Sijuwade, Olubuse II.

Bashorun Momodu’s foray into journalism began with African Concord magazine, leading to prominent roles in various publications. His unwavering commitment to truth and justice was evident during Nigeria’s pro-democracy struggles, where he faced persecution for his beliefs, eventually leading to exile. Undeterred, he founded Ovation International in 1996, a magazine that has since become a beacon of African excellence, celebrating achievements across the continent.

His contributions extend beyond media; as a political commentator and former presidential aspirant, he embodies the Yoruba enigmatic excellence. His insights and advocacy continue to shape national discourse, reflecting a deep-seated commitment to Nigeria’s progress.

As he celebrates 65 years, the House of Oduduwa honours Bashorun Dele Momodu’s indelible impact on journalism, culture, and national development. May the blessings of the ancestors continue to guide him, and may his legacy inspire generations to come.

Igba odun, odun kan ni!
Afon a gbo ko to wo!

Signed:
Otunba Moses Olafare,
Director, Media & Public Affairs,
Ooni’s Palace,
Ile-Ife.

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Momodu: The Babalawo of Nigerian Media

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Sixty-five today, the publisher of Ovation International, Chief Ayobamidele Momodu, is a pride, not just of the media but the nation. Olawale Olaleye writes.

Chief Ayobamidele Momodu’s story of grass to grace is public knowledge. All of the information is already out there. This is because he discusses his life and its intricate trajectory at every given opportunity with glee and self-esteem.

At the punch of a button, you’d have all you need to knowabout this proud media guru and indigene of Edo State, who chose to “naturalise” in Yorubaland, making Ile-Ife, the source, his birth station. Little wonder, his other names include Ojutelegan Ajani.

With a bit of mild activism spurred by instinctive resentment to abuse of any sort, this celebrated writer has conquered where many could not even dare. And, where many had failed, Bob Dee, as everyone calls him, is not one to be stifled by the failures of others. He’d rather make his own mistakes and learn from them.

His indomitable spirit, typical of the average Nigerian – man or woman – who carries him or herself with rare confidence and self-worth, is also why life has been unable to relegate him in the scheme of things.

He does not only catch up with trends in journalism and communications in general, but he always makes a conscious decision at self-development, just to stay active on the job, timelessly. That he has remained relevant for several decades is not a function of accident.

His willingness and readiness to help others, no matter what the issues are, is one trait that speaks to his individuality, and clearly a reflection of his thorough upbringing and the tolerant Yoruba environment, where life began for him – diped in the milk of kindness and their cultural hospitality.

With an enduring voyage on the media landscape, cutting across imposing brands and years of solid experience before setting out to do something different, not before building solid and expensive contacts in this multidisciplinary calling, it simply belies logic that anyone at all would question whether or not Bob Dee is a journalist?

With tongue-in-cheek and evident cynicism, an aide to the Minister of the FCT, LereOlayinka, during a recent interview on the Arise News Television, questioned Bob Dee’s journalism background. For convenient mischief, he’d rather he was a Babalawo because he studied Yoruba as his first degree. The effrontery alone is appalling!

A graduate of Yoruba and Master’s in English Literature from the University of Ife, (now Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife in 1982, Momodu got his first media job as staff writer with African Concord magazine, owned by the late Chief MKO Abiola, and later transferred to the Weekend Concord as a pioneer staff.

This graduate of Yoruba wrote the first cover story for the newspaper in March 1989, and contributed to other titles such as the National Concord, Sunday Concord, Business Concord and of course, his turf, the Yoruba newspaper, Isokan.

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Ààrę @65! My Testament of a Good Man

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By Seyi Orolugbagbe

The first time I ran into Joseph Ayobamidele Dada Ojutęlęgan Ajani Oluwaseun Momodu, after our Ifę days, was during one of my visits home, from the US, in the early 1990s.

So I was exiting the Abiola’s house while he was entering. We exchange greetings, having not seen since he left Ile-Ifę. But he did something so profound, by remembering to ask after my dad, whom by all consideration, is essentially one of the most, if not the most important human being to me. The truth is our relationship, and indeed my regards for him gained a higher ascendancy even from then. Then Bob Dee, as fondly called by most, suggested a spread, coming from his expertise in celebrity management for our newly established dealership in Victoria Island, Lagos. An experience he packaged and presented so meticulously well, and which helped in launching the new business, as a brand, fully and permanently in the Nigerian business firmament.

Additionally, his would-be wife and mine, happened to have been longstanding friends, having grown up in Ibadan and been Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ifę students, during same period. This would further deepen the relationships, to the extent families were brought together on both sides and parents became increasingly involved and closer, virtually becoming one large family and friendships grew larger, such that it got the Ààrę, to uncommonly but profoundly, name my daughter after his mom, Arikę. Our own great Ààrę would have showed up for me, in ways more than innumerable, in aspects, scenarios and capacities unfathomable or perhaps almost beyond human comprehension.

These are however my personal accounts. Those of others are certainly uncountable. Ààrę would make it a point of duty, even when not fashionable, nor convenient for him, to check up on everyone intermittently.
How can I forget how he would veer out, flying all the way to California, to spend time with us, or to call us up every time he set foot on the American soil, whenever he couldn’t fly in.

Then came his foray into politics, especially the very recent exercise; where it became incumbent on me to virtually step aside from every other thing in order to support him, by focusing and concentrating on prosecuting the political process and activities of running for the office of the president of Nigeria, as a gesture of appreciation.

We certainly weathered a lot together during the period. I must however state, unequivocally, that the storms and challenges, as daunting as they may have seemed, were not as nearly as important than the prospects of the gratifying feeling, the satisfaction and the accomplishment of working closely with the Onigege Ara of Joga-Orile, the Bashorun of Oke-Ila-Orangun, Ehanikhaye of Ihievbe Kingdom, Ààrę of Iwo Kingdom, the Akinrogun of Gbonganland, to list only a few, on these and similar projects. Our Bob Dee sir, olowori Yeye Ààrę Mobolaji Abiodun, Ana Adaramaja, n’Ijębu-Igbo, may the line continue to fall for you in pleasant places sir. May you continue to find God’s favor, grace, bias, kindness, joy, love, happiness and unequaled vista of good health. Your kind is truly rare.

Happy 65th Birthday Elder statesman, Omo aroti wę bi ojo, Omo o ji l’oru kę yin yin, Omo obęriri l’okun!

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