By Babatunde Jose
What have we gained from Ramadan? Have we been spiritually cleaned, recharged and rejuvenated? Has it been morally and spiritually gratifying and fulfilling? Have we been able to shed many of our iniquitous baggage? Have we relinquished the sins of fornication, covetousness, and a life of deceit? Have we been able to move nearer God in an atmosphere of God-consciousness? Have we been doing the needful in our homes and to our fellow man?
Have we given the orphan his due? Have we entrenched Justice and Fairness in our daily living? What of compassion and empathy? Do we feel the pains of our fellowmen, our subjects, and followers? Have we taken steps to right the wrongs we wroth on the people around us? Have we been fair to our wives, children, relations, and neighbors? Are we satisfied with our new lease of spiritual awakening?
Must all the gains of Ramadan end today? Are we returning to our old ways of cheating, backbiting, slander, and wickedness? Today is therefore, a day of decision. Are we going to consolidate on the gains of Ramadan or descend back into the abyss of a sinful life? The choice is ours. Ihdinas siraatalmustaqeem.
Ramadan has rightly been described as a school of Iman and a stop to recharge our spiritual batteries. Must we alloy that battery to die by going back to the old ways? The choice is ours.
Unfortunately, the fall and descent into a life of sin and iniquity starts a few days after Ramadan; when we say ‘fasting is finished, the nightly prayers are over; the group gatherings to break the fast have vanished. We can eat, drink, and be merry again when we like.’ And that special feeling of God consciousness gradually fades away. The spiritual high evaporates, and all we are left with are the bad habits we tried to shed during Ramadan which mysteriously rear their ugly heads once it is over.
Ramadan is supposed to increase your faith and God-consciousness: “Believers! Fasting has been prescribed for you-as it was prescribed for those before you-so that you may be conscious of God.” (Quran 2:183).
The lessons learned and spiritual benefits gained during that month are intended to carry over for the rest of the year until next Ramadan.
Prophet Muhammad (SAW), said: “Whoever does not give up forged speech and evil actions [while fasting], God is not in need of his leaving his food and drink.”
Ramadan is a month of training for us so that we may become doers of good and refrain from evil throughout the year. Each and every year this blessed month helps to train us to become better Muslims. But now that Ramadan is over are we going to continue doing the good we acquired from it or are we going to go back to the way we were before it started? That is the question.
Many of us did not say our prayers before Ramadan but during the blessed month we found it easier to pray. We cannot continue our lives without praying; otherwise, we are not fulfilling the purpose of our lives.
Allah says: “I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship” (Quran 51:56)
We will not be successful in this life or the next without prayer. The Prophet (SAW) said, “The first thing that a person will be questioned about is his prayers.” Missing prayers intentionally is so serious that it is tantamount to disbelief: The Prophet (SAW) said: “What lies between a man and disbelief is the abandonment of prayer.” Muslim. Unfortunately, there will be many Muslims in Hell who did not say their prayers.
Many of us left the Quran on the top shelf throughout the year but when Ramadan came we picked up the Quran and blew off the dust and began to recite it again. By returning the Quran to the bookshelf, we will be missing out on receiving intercession from the Quran on the Day of Judgment: The Prophet (SAW) says: “Recite the Holy Quran as much as you can for It will come as an intercessor for its reciter on the Day of Judgment” (Muslim)
Allah the Most High said:
Establish regular prayers–at the sun’s decline till the darkness of the night, and the Morning Prayer and reading: For the prayer and reading in the morning carry their testimony. And pray in the small watches of the morning: (It would be) an additional prayer (or spiritual profit) for thee: Soon will thy Lord raise thee to a Station of Praise and Glory! (Quran 17: 78-79)
During the blessed days and nights of Ramadan we were given the opportunity to repent and ask Allah for his mercy and forgiveness and to thank him for his infinite favors upon us. But now that Ramadan is over we must not stop repenting to Allah for our sins and we must continue to be thankful to Allah for his infinite favors upon us.
They ask thee concerning women’s courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner, time, or place ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean. (Quran 2:222)
Our Lord! (They say), Let not our hearts deviate now after Thou hast guided us, but grant us mercy from Thine own Presence; for Thou art the Grantor of bounties without measure (Quran 3:8)
Merciful Allah, I acknowledge my sins and shortcomings before You. Your Word says I should not despair because You forgive all sins. I ask for Your complete forgiveness—cleanse my heart, erase my past mistakes, and renew my soul. Let this Ramadan be a turning point in my life, where I walk in Your mercy and grace. Ameen.
Ya Rabb, purify my heart from hypocrisy, pride, and hidden sins. Create in me a sincere heart that seeks only Your pleasure. Remove every evil intention and fill me with love for righteousness. Let my worship be genuine and my actions be pleasing in Your sight. Grant me a heart that will stand accepted before You on the Day of Judgment. Ameen.
O Allah, protect me and my family from the punishment of Hellfire. Shield us from sins that lead to destruction and guide us toward righteousness. Let our lives reflect obedience to You, and grant us safety in this world and the next. Make us among those who are saved by Your mercy. Ameen.
Ya Allah, bring peace, love, and unity into my family. Remove every conflict, misunderstanding, and division among us. Let our home be filled with Your presence and blessings. Make us a source of comfort and joy to one another. Guide each member of my family to righteousness and faith. Make our household an example of love and devotion to You, Ameen.
Ya Shafi, the Healer, I call upon You for healing and strength. Touch every part of my body and restore me to full health. Remove sickness, pain, and weakness from my life. Grant me physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Let Your healing power flow through me completely. Keep me strong to worship You and fulfill my purpose, Ameen.
O Allah, increase my faith and strengthen my belief in You. Fill my heart with tranquility and unwavering trust. Let my iman grow stronger with every act of worship. Remove doubts and replace them with certainty and conviction. Help me remain firm in my faith in all situations. Make me among those whose hearts are filled with light, Ameen.
Eid Mubarak and Jumuah Mufeedah!
