Life Coach: Ignore the Negative Voices

By Lamide Adenuga

Dear Friends, many of you know already, but please permit me to remind you that there are many good things in you, there are many great things in store for you, and they have your name written all over them, they are yours exclusively; yours for the taking and yours for the grab. While some folks are still at the level of hoping and wishing that I want this, I want that, I desire this; I desire that, some others are a step further, they know what they not only know what they want, but they are going after it also.

One other important thing to note is that as you begin to wish and desire things in life, and as you begin to go after your goals and dreams, out in pursuit of your hopes and aspirations, seeking on turning possibilities to realities, you should at all times IGNORE THE NEGATIVE VOICES!

Don’t let that inner voice tell you that it’s impossible, don’t let that inner voice tell you that it’s out of your reach, don’t let that inner voice tell you that it’s beyond you.  Ignore the negative voices, be it internal or external; ignore any voice that tells you that it can’t be done, that it’s not possible.

Dear friends, you need to be careful so you don’t let negative voices build a case against you, because if you entertain them, they will start spreading their tentacles, and they will present reasons why your dream and goals are impossible, the good thing you said you desire is a tall order, why you cannot achieve success, the negative voice will tell you that you are not good enough, that you should cut down your expectations.

Also, please permit me to tell you that you should not be discouraged if things are not going the way you expect, you should not be weighed down by state and the situation that you are in now, things will surely improve, and they will get better. Do not judge the possibilities for your life based on the circumstances around you, or based on your resources. Don’t determine your future based on where your life is right now. See I gat a lil’ gossip for ya, a lil’ news bulletin; where your life is right now is not your finality, , it’s not your destination, it’s not a sum total of you, it’s just where it is right now, and it’s only what it is right now. The future is bright and beautiful, the possibilities are limitless.

IGNORE THE NEGAIVE VOICES ALWAYS; you are planning on submitting your proposal somewhere, and that voice says, why bother, why do you want to waste your time, it won’t work anyway. You want to sit for a professional exam and that negative voice whispers; what if you fail? You finally want to start your business, and a voice comes in at night and says; are you sure this business will not fold up after a few years? When such voices come be it through silent thoughts, or through audible thoughts, just shut them up immediately, and engage the positive thoughts in your heart. Avoid people, places, and thoughts, gatherings, and whatever it is that brings negative thoughts to your mind.

Ignore the negative voices and all low expectations that people have about you. Some will try to talk you down on your dream, on what you believe in, excuse me!

Tell yourself; I have seen the light, and I look forward to a better and a brighter day, I will not be trapped in yesterday, I will not be held hostage by whispers of impossibility. Know who and what you believe, and look towards the future with optimism. YOU WILL WIN!


Lamide Adenuga is an author and an International Conference Speaker who believes that the right mentality can power anyone to success; an ideas man who is out to transform people and places he comes in contact with.

He is a Business Development Consultant/Business Management Consultant, a well sought out for motivational and inspirational Speaker, and a Business Coach to entrepreneurs, aspiring entrepreneurs, business owners and business starters. He is also an Angel of strategy and organization and has featured on Radio and Television shows severally.

Lamide is a Public Relations Specialist and has written articles in various newspapers, journals and magazines. He is a Personal Effectiveness columnist in OVATION International Magazine. He is also a Television host with his Motivational telecast, “MAKING THINGS HAPPEN” on WAP TV.

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